Girl with boyfriend suddenly wants to hang out?

[Left]

This girl knows about my interest in her, as I asked her out once and she rejected me because she 'didn't want to be a rebound', as I had a break up recently. She said 'I'm not ready to let go of my ****ty relationship and you only just came out of one'. So I left it at that. We met twice for coffee for about an hour (she was really busy with exams etc) and we just kept it cool. After I asked her out that time, I never brought up the subject again and I barely texted her.

 

She told me that if her boyfriend moves in with his friends for uni next year she will break up with him (personal circumstances) and the chances of him doing so are super high. She's been telling me about her problems with her boyfriend a few months ago but for the last month or so she never ever mentioned him, but I know they're still together.

 

 

 

A week and a half since meeting her for coffee, I didn't text her at all. Then I get a message from her along the lines 'Hey! I'm on Easter break for the next 2 weeks so we can properly hang out during the next few weeks if you want'

The thing is, after our last meet up I never ever mentioned 'meeting up' or 'hanging out' again or even messaged her and this text from her was very random. When I do text her, she doesn't seem too interested, for example, I asked her 'When was the last time you've been bowling?' Because I wanted to go with her, and she said 'Forever ago aha', but didn't say anything else after that, so I just said 'Alright, good', because I'm taking her there since we set up a day to meet.

 

I'm pretty sure she finds me attractive and I think she just doesn't want to make it obvious because she's still in a relationship, what do you think? And what should I do? Just go out with her and have fun and see how it goes?

[preraph]

Well, right now, I would give her a phone call and find out if she's single or not. You have the right. Say, Hey, I was really surprised you wanted to hangout. What happened to your boyfriend? If she's at all ambiguous and you can't tell if this is attraction or not from her, just don't fall into that trap of being her sounding board and ending up her thinking of you like a brother.

 

Also, you need to know if she's still dangling her bf because if so, now you know she will dangle you and go out with someone else before she cuts you loose too.