thequestioning Posted July 28, 2005 Posted July 28, 2005 Well, I've been seeing this girl for a while now, before doing stuff just together we did stuff in groups with friends. Anyways, how do I get to the point of her being my girlfriend? Do people actually ask, will you be my girlfriend, or what? Is it just presumed after dating a while, kissing her, or what? Any advice would be great, tomorrow is the last time I see her before she heads off for vacation.
centered Posted July 28, 2005 Posted July 28, 2005 When you are exclusive, then you are bf/gf. Same as "going steady." Asking her to be your girlfriend is tantamount to asking for exclusivity. If you're both young, she might think it's really sweet of you to ask her. Sounds like you both are enjoying each other's company. That's good! Have fun, and good luck!
Rosalind Posted July 28, 2005 Posted July 28, 2005 Originally posted by thequestioning Well, I've been seeing this girl for a while now, before doing stuff just together we did stuff in groups with friends. Anyways, how do I get to the point of her being my girlfriend? Do people actually ask, will you be my girlfriend, or what? Is it just presumed after dating a while, kissing her, or what? Any advice would be great, tomorrow is the last time I see her before she heads off for vacation. Awww...so cute. It reminds me of when I was 15 and hanging with a group, then one of the guys took me aside and asked "Will you be my girlfriend?" I thought it was so sweet
Shana Posted July 28, 2005 Posted July 28, 2005 Well we are not 15 but in our 30's and I remember us saying ok we are exclusive but how do we get into that "next stage".. that was the confusing part... but it just came naturally.. ask her, her thoughts of the realtionship, go from there.
Just Visiting Posted July 28, 2005 Posted July 28, 2005 After about 2 or 3 weeks of seeing each other, my boyfriend came out and asked if I would be his girlfriend. We are in our early 30s. Even though it seems high schoolish, to be asked that can still melt a girl's heart. Providing you are into him too...lol.
clynn Posted July 28, 2005 Posted July 28, 2005 Yeah, its great when a guy does that! or, another thing you can do is just slip into the conversation a reference to your relationship, as in "my girlfriend"...blah blah. You can introduce her as yoru girlfriend, that sort of thing.
centered Posted July 28, 2005 Posted July 28, 2005 Originally posted by clynn Yeah, its great when a guy does that! or, another thing you can do is just slip into the conversation a reference to your relationship, as in "my girlfriend"...blah blah. You can introduce her as yoru girlfriend, that sort of thing. Clynn has the best suggestion. This is a really good way to do it casually. And believe me, she'll notice -- and appareciate it! -- if that's the way your relationship has been growing.
Author thequestioning Posted July 30, 2005 Author Posted July 30, 2005 I think I'll just ask her, thanks for advice. Think it will be too much or seem overeager if I give her roses when I ask her?
Rosalind Posted July 30, 2005 Posted July 30, 2005 Originally posted by thequestioning I think I'll just ask her, thanks for advice. Think it will be too much or seem overeager if I give her roses when I ask her? Give her a single red rose.
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 30, 2005 Posted July 30, 2005 Originally posted by Rosalind Give her a single red rose. I was just going to say the same thing .. less is more.. Either a single rose or 3 in a vase..
Author thequestioning Posted July 30, 2005 Author Posted July 30, 2005 Hm sounds good (and cheaper ), thanks for all the advice.
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