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Title is suppose to read *Can't help but feel guilty/depressed*

 

I just set up a date through OKCupid (which I just started using again). I made the decision to get off OLD actually, but figured i'd try OKC one last time and well.. got a date out of it haha

 

Here's the thing though the girl I'm going on a date with kind of looks like the girl that I just stopped seeing. Not exactly alike, but similar in some ways. But I can't help but feel a little guilty/depressed about things. I'm not even sure why I feel that way. I was thinking maybe it's cause I'm jumping back into dating too soon and maybe should just wait a couple weeks. It might also be because subliminally I may still have a thing for the girl I just stopped seeing, so looking at the girl I'll be going out with brings mixed emotions? Really not sure

 

The girl I'm going to see is VERY cute, smart (from what I can tell) and shares a lot of interests. She's a huge soccer fan which is awesome cause those are hard to find haha. So on the surface it would seem I should be gun-ho and really excited, but for some reason I'm not.. Could this just be due to lingering effects from the last girl I was dating you think? It's been 3.5 weeks since i've seen her, but like 1 week or so since we decided it wasn't going to work (more her decision than mine)

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Title is suppose to read *Can't help but feel guilty/depressed*

 

I just set up a date through OKCupid (which I just started using again). I made the decision to get off OLD actually, but figured i'd try OKC one last time and well.. got a date out of it haha

 

Here's the thing though the girl I'm going on a date with kind of looks like the girl that I just stopped seeing. Not exactly alike, but similar in some ways. But I can't help but feel a little guilty/depressed about things. I'm not even sure why I feel that way. I was thinking maybe it's cause I'm jumping back into dating too soon and maybe should just wait a couple weeks. It might also be because subliminally I may still have a thing for the girl I just stopped seeing, so looking at the girl I'll be going out with brings mixed emotions? Really not sure

 

The girl I'm going to see is VERY cute, smart (from what I can tell) and shares a lot of interests. She's a huge soccer fan which is awesome cause those are hard to find haha. So on the surface it would seem I should be gun-ho and really excited, but for some reason I'm not.. Could this just be due to lingering effects from the last girl I was dating you think? It's been 3.5 weeks since i've seen her, but like 1 week or so since we decided it wasn't going to work (more her decision than mine)

 

Rebound on the second girl but in all you could date her and see where it goes and man don't mess this one up at all. How are you so depressed. Do not act like that around this second girl. The other woman is gone, forget about her. OKC works well doesn't it. You know the game play very well to lure another one so fast.

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Rebound on the second girl but in all you could date her and see where it goes and man don't mess this one up at all. How are you so depressed. Do not act like that around this second girl. The other woman is gone, forget about her. OKC works well doesn't it. You know the game play very well to lure another one so fast.

 

 

Yeah was it you who said something about OKC the other day? It does work well, it's way better than I remember it being

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