Starl Posted April 1, 2017 Posted April 1, 2017 I met this guy roughly a week ago because I had a job interview at the place he works and it is a place which traffics younger people (late high school through college) to the location. A majority of the job description is just being a very nice person and it's more of a fun job talking to people and getting them their orders (It's a drink place) while also making their day and being friendly and nice. Typically the workers are all very close-knit and all are friends with each other and it is a family in itself. When I met this guy, we immediately hit it off as just friends and it was really nice. We found out that we have somewhat similar interests in our hobbies and he is a college student at a private Christian school down the road. He also hugged me which seemed a tad off considering we had just met, but also these kinds of people are generally very nice like that. I visited the place the next day to get a drink and was there with my best friend and when he greeted me he said to me in a relaxed and cool tone "Hey beautiful", but it seemed flirty as well and we hugged. I visited there a few hours later, but on my own, after dropping of my friend at home and he addressed me the same way as before, but this time I was behind some people and he kinda went out of his way to make sure that I and everyone else around heard him address me (but also that could be completely different than what his intentions were, but everyone turned to look at me when he said it) and when he asked what I wanted to drink I told him I didn't know and so he chose for me and he seemed really flirty about it. He also hugged me and it felt like maybe it lingered a little bit too long but neither of us seem bothered by it? I asked for his snapchat and he ended up adding me back that night when he got home, but then he proceeded to message me first. This struck me as odd because I'm snapchat friends with a lot of the workers at other locations of this place and when I added them none of them really had reached out to me first or at all, to be exact. We kinda chatted for awhile but nothing extremely captivating and I was kinda getting one word replies, but just enough to keep a conversation and then we both kinda fell asleep. A few days ago, I got a snapchat from him, but it was something that was also on his story so I didn't bother replying, but is there a reason why he would send me a direct snapchat if it was going to his story anyways and he hadn't sent me any others that were on his story? Anyways, today I went back and he was working and on my way out, he was taking orders in the drive through and I was leaving and I stopped to say goodbye and he hugged me through my car window and just as I was leaving he said "love you" and it was super casual and I don't think he meant it in an actual "I love you" way, but it seemed flirty. Honestly, I don't know if he likes me or if he's just super flirty. One of my friends who used to work with him says that he is kind of creepy and I don't really think so, but could that also be that I have a crush on him? I think he knows that I'm still a senior in high school and he is a couple years older than me, but I don't know if he's just obnoxiously friendly or is indeed flirting with me? Also keep in mind I don't know how he treats other girls or people in general aside from his coworkers, but I really didn't see him flirting with any of them and I've never seen him hug any other customer. Sorry if this seems stupid or pathetic, I just want to get some outside sources? Thank you guys!
telemakus Posted April 1, 2017 Posted April 1, 2017 Without understanding anything about Snap chat that you described I think he's kinda creepy. I mean if you're still at school and he's a few years older he seems to be coming on kind of strong.
Author Starl Posted April 1, 2017 Author Posted April 1, 2017 Without understanding anything about Snap chat that you described I think he's kinda creepy. I mean if you're still at school and he's a few years older he seems to be coming on kind of strong. But you would consider it flirting more so than just being extremely friendly and polite?
telemakus Posted April 1, 2017 Posted April 1, 2017 But you would consider it flirting more so than just being extremely friendly and polite? Who knows? Maybe he's like that with every girl he meets. Maybe he's gay and assumes everyone realises it so is happy to flirt outrageously.
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