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What is the difference between caring and attraction?


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I am just looking for a second opinion, as I am never really good at this sort of thing (judging people and their intentions). My gf and I have been together for a couple of years and well I don't really get to see her side of the family all that often, other than phone calls a periodic trips there (they live in another state).

 

So recently I have noticed with these phone calls and periodic trips she had been siding with me a lot when there have been disagreements between my gf and I. Also when I was at my gf place this past week and the two of them (gf/her) were sitting beside each other and my hands were cold and I said 'god my hands are cold' and walked over to them, she reacted more than my girlfriend ... I found her reaction overly playful (I didn't even touch her). She also got me a small birthday gift, it was thoughtful but not expensive ... I haven't gotten her a b-day gift yet. I am a bit confused between caring and the other side of things, I know she has a bf as well but I just don't expect her to be reacting this way ... any thoughts?

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Who is the other woman you're referring to?

 

To answer your question. People who care for cats are good folk. People who are attracted to cats are best avoided.

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