kumonile Posted April 1, 2017 Posted April 1, 2017 I have been exclusively with this guy since August of last year. Things were slow rolling because he wanted to be sure yada yada and finally after 6 months of seeing eachother we 'put a label' on it per say when I decided to walk away and he came sprinting after. Anyways, in January he went to San Diego with his best friend for 5 days and we weren't very serious. A few weeks ago he mentioned he was going to Calgary in July to see this girl he went to University with who lives there now for a week. I expressed my uneasiness to him but said also said if he wants to go he should and we will discuss how I can get over it. He kind of wasn't sure about going after that but today he was super excited because he convinced his best male friend to go with him who also went to school with them. He was like, "Does that make it easier for you if he comes too?" and he explained the only reason he was asking him to go was so it would be easier on me. I think he is being a great guy but I'm wondering why I still feel kind of upset that he never considered asking me to go with him or anything. Is it me just being jealous they are vacationing and I am not or am I being really needy?
dumbass2 Posted April 1, 2017 Posted April 1, 2017 Have you two taken a vacation together before? And yes, that is a good question as to why he didn't ask you to go. Why didn't you ask him when he first brought it up? Are you able to take that time off?
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