Sdives Posted March 31, 2017 Posted March 31, 2017 I know this girl Im very confident that we like each other. We haven’t gone out yet, but she does hint at it then a backs out. I haven’t asked her out but she hits at it I think the issue that she has never had a boyfriend before or ever really dated like at all. So she fears it on some level. I know she likes me but due to lack of experience backs out. She won’t take the plunge. I think if I got to know her more then I can change it I could be her first. She’s young and inexperienced likely a virgin, I suspect. We always worries about not seeing me again, and tells me she always looks forward to see me as I always make her day. She wants to know when she will see me again. She’s 19 young and her inexperice is obvious. I really do think she does like me and maybe a lot. Anyone else dealt with this? How can I earn her trust its like dating scare’s her and causing a confliction? She wants to, but doesn’t know what to do. It’s immature but I feel I need work to get her trust in me. I will take this slow with her, but how I can open her up more? I need to have to ask her out. I can drop hints and then maybe down the line ask? So its like I’m giving her preemptive hints and see how that goes Any ladies ever be this way before a first BF? How can I pursue her?
smackie9 Posted March 31, 2017 Posted March 31, 2017 Be that confident /playful /assertive guy. When she wavers, give her a nudge, a little teasing, then a comforting smile, maybe a quick hug. You take it slow you will lose her.
preraph Posted March 31, 2017 Posted March 31, 2017 Earn her trust by being trustworthy and not dogging around on her. Treat her like a proper lady, open doors and all that, hold her hand. She's still young. She may be chomping at the bit or she may not. Before you actually do the deed, you remember what it was like before you would do it and you just made out a lot, well, you'll probably need to just keep building on the making out until intercourse is simply the next logical step. But that may take time. And do not ask her for oral while she's still a virgin, please! That's really more advanced than intercourse even if it doesn't get you pregnant. If she's a virgin, she may need a couple of months to go on birth control pills and have it become effective. Build communication with her so you know what's in her head, and good luck. You can keep the momentum up. You don't have to just stop, but let her get used to feeling sexy before she has intercourse so it's not a big leap from inexperienced to losing virginity. That will build her confidence and trust.
Author Sdives Posted April 1, 2017 Author Posted April 1, 2017 Thanks but we're not really at that stage still. We are still getting to know each other. Im trying to push it in the right direction. She likes me I know she does but she's hesitant I mean. trying to figure out a way to make her more comfortable
preraph Posted April 1, 2017 Posted April 1, 2017 If she's accepting dates from you, real dates, then all you can do is be a gentleman but try to keep progressing slowly with holding hands, kissing, etc.
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