Arranged M; wife in affair with boss. Want to stay married. ?

[usa1ah]

OK. I am sure he uses condoms.

 

 

 

Bull****! He is doing what ever he wants to her.

 

Sounds like you have no pride or self respect. She will leave you one day, no doubt about it.

[aliveagain]

Yes, I don't mind.

 

Well, your one of a kind because I went through that very scenario and raised a son who I thought was mine for most of the first year of his life. Once the DNA tests came back that he wasn't mine she and all her problems were removed from my life. Being a cuckold and getting access to man juice through your wife is your shtick. Having him impregnate your wife and raising him as your own without it bothering you is a whole different matter. I will just say that is not the norm.

[Chi townD]

Well, if you're happier than a pig in slop about this, then you need to contact the Admins and have your thread moved to sexual and reproductive Health and Practices. Nothing we can do for you here.

[AMarriedMan]

Yes, I don't mind.

 

Please understand that there are at least four involved parties if your wife becomes pregnant by her boss: your wife, yourself, your wife's boss, and the baby. The consequences for everyone would be lifelong and dead serious.

 

That situation could **** up the baby in multiple ways. He/she would be almost certain to find out about the false paternity as detailed genetic information is bound to become essential to health care in the future. That would raise serious questions about her/his identity. Also, you cannot know how the biological father, your wife's boss and lover, would react to the knowledge of having a child together with your wife. He might want to get involved in the child's life, especially if his wife finds out and divorces him, and that involvement might be highly unwelcome from your point of view with you being quite powerless to do anything about it. If you were the legal father of a teenager who knew his/her real father was his/her mother's lover and that you were powerless or unwilling to stop the affair, it would almost certainly poison your relationship with him/her. Would he/she be able to respect you at all? Would you have any authority over the teenager in your charge enabling you to keep him/her out of trouble if need be? The child's half siblings both on the maternal and the paternal side would also be among the casualties.

 

You are fiddling with a thermonuclear device here. You need to put your sexual perversions aside for a moment and look at the whole issue from a rational and ethical perspective.

Edited April 5, 2017 by AMarriedMan

[askbernice]

If you feel you are happy, then continue your relation with her. If something goes wrong, then you for separation.

[Cephalopod]

So do you ever watch them have sex?

[GorillaTheater]

So do you ever watch them have sex?

 

 

Well, somebody has to hold the drinks in case they get thirsty.

[aliveagain]

If your wife and other man have a baby together, why do they need you? You are the third wheel in your marriage and very quickly becoming obsolescent.