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She blocked me in all social media...What shouldnt i do?


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Hi...friends..

I am 28 Professor/Female ..and she is 22 Student/Female..Yes Lesbian ...!

It was 4 years of relationship... she was doing her engineering... at the final year i got relieved from my job...on February 2015...she on the same month fell in love with a boy..from her church...

then after 3 months... she broke up with him..because of his caste...

I was jobless...and all my friends got married...so i was alone...she again came back saying..I was her best...

Next she found a guy in work place..(November 2015)and she fell in love with him...Again she left me for second time... then he went onsite to work... (march 2016)

After 15 days ...she cried asking me to help marry him...But in February 2017 he got married with another girl...

again she came back to me...saying i was the only she fell in love with...

 

PS: But i know he will leave her..since she fell for that in express speed...spoke very harsh to her mother...and said..she would marry only him...else she will make her family shame by eloping...

 

Next after September 2016 ,she again fell in love with another guy from her church...and now she broke up in January 2017 ...since her family doesn't like that guy..

 

I really fed up with her love life...so i spied her ..next move..she is now with so called friend...but i really don't know whats going on in her life..

but she blocked me in all social sites..Facebook..Whatsapp...I really dont know what to do...

Still i love her deeply...She was different....Please help me...

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Keep social media in proper perspective. It isn't all that social to begin with, and if that was your only way of communicating with her, that wasn't much. Meaning: you aren't missing much, and you haven't lost much.

 

If you have no other way to communicate with her, then you won't be in communication. It's her choice, and I don't see anything that there's anything for you to do about it.

 

We get to pick our friends and lovers in this life, and if it isn't mutual, then it isn't a relationship. All it takes is one to say "no" and it's over. Well, it's over. Get on with your life.

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My relationship has just ended and I've gone NC. I have taken all means of contact away from him because I don't want any further contact with him.

 

What do you think HE should do??

 

I want him to respect my choice and let me heal from the relationship.

 

I think you need to do the same and leave her be and get on with your life.

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