Author mushroomlol Posted April 26, 2017 Author Posted April 26, 2017 Well, he's not treating her decent. They talked about going out on Friday and she never heard from him and she had to ask him and he said he had allergies. Wouldn't he have told her this at least earlier in the day and not just stood her up? I'd be suspicious of another woman. And he's maybe fearful about having sex with someone and getting caught and messing that up. I mean, by five dates, would you know by now if it could be something else like he's very conservative or saving himself or something? Have you talked about his beliefs on it? The other thing is he could hate women who have any past sexual history. You'll have to talk to him to just find out what his ideas are. Meanwhile,. definitely date other guys too. He did mention he is conservative. I will try to date others but again it's really hard for me to connect with someone and actually go out. 1
Purepony Posted April 26, 2017 Posted April 26, 2017 What is the problem again? Normally women come here and complain that the guy only wanted them for sex. This guy is taking his time, treating you decent and you have a problem with it? I'm not surprised! I've always said women love *******s !!! Here's solid gold proof !!
preraph Posted April 26, 2017 Posted April 26, 2017 He could still be gay and trying to convince himself he isn't because he's too conservative to believe in it. Something is up. It shouldn't be like pulling teeth to date normally with a person. 1
OatsAndHall Posted April 26, 2017 Posted April 26, 2017 What is the problem again? Normally women come here and complain that the guy only wanted them for sex. This guy is taking his time, treating you decent and you have a problem with it? I agree with this statement, through and through. The guy cares enough to take his time. That's something to be thankful for.
Author mushroomlol Posted April 27, 2017 Author Posted April 27, 2017 I agree with this statement, through and through. The guy cares enough to take his time. That's something to be thankful for. But it's been 3 months now...?
Dis Posted April 27, 2017 Posted April 27, 2017 But it's been 3 months now...? Exactly If it doesnt feel right to YOU....thats all that matters It wouldnt feel right to me We cant tell you how you should feel or shouldnt feel based on how things have been with this guy But I think you know what you need to do So do it 1
stillafool Posted April 27, 2017 Posted April 27, 2017 And due to the infrequncies of dates, we actually have known each other for 3?months now...it's more like friendship to me but I don't even want this friendship cuz we have not a lot in common If you feel you have nothing in common why waste anymore brain space being bothered with this guy. Just tell him good bye. Thank goodness you didn't have sex with him. 1
smackie9 Posted April 27, 2017 Posted April 27, 2017 I told the OP back in march to "dump this chump".......what's the damn hold up?? lets move along already. 2
Dis Posted April 27, 2017 Posted April 27, 2017 I told the OP back in march to "dump this chump".......what's the damn hold up?? lets move along already. Yes pls!
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