JustAnotherLostLove Posted March 30, 2017 Posted March 30, 2017 We were together for just over 3 years. Like a lot of other stories go, she started acting cold one day, and a few days later was the last time I ever saw her. She hooked up with someone else a couple months later, and they're still together to my knowledge. I won't bother you guys with details, what's the point? In one way or another, all our narratives are a like. But the point is, it took me a year and a half to get over a 3 year relationship. And when I say get over, I mean I'm starting to live normally again. Going out, working out, working etc. However, I did force myself to deeply reflect on us, just now, to see how over her I really was. And the truth is, it still hurts, and probably always will. Hope everyone is well. 1
youdontknowme555 Posted March 30, 2017 Posted March 30, 2017 Good on you for getting over this, and for being honest about how long it took. I'm sure you are moving into another chapter of your life, which although won't replace her, it isn't supposed to. Just another chapter
Altair0770 Posted March 30, 2017 Posted March 30, 2017 Congrats. Not to burst your bubble, but imo you're not over it until you stop thinking about her daily and don't give a damn about what she's doing. Where it doesn't "hurt". By your definition, I got over my ex after a week. But here I am still on these forums wondering if she'll come back. But, I will say I'm progressing.
soulforge Posted March 30, 2017 Posted March 30, 2017 We were together for just over 3 years. Like a lot of other stories go, she started acting cold one day, and a few days later was the last time I ever saw her. She hooked up with someone else a couple months later, and they're still together to my knowledge. I won't bother you guys with details, what's the point? In one way or another, all our narratives are a like. But the point is, it took me a year and a half to get over a 3 year relationship. And when I say get over, I mean I'm starting to live normally again. Going out, working out, working etc. However, I did force myself to deeply reflect on us, just now, to see how over her I really was. And the truth is, it still hurts, and probably always will. Hope everyone is well. wow a year and a half.. I find this quite scary.. did you date anyone else or meet anyone else in that time?
Maldives Posted March 30, 2017 Posted March 30, 2017 We were together for just over 3 years. Like a lot of other stories go, she started acting cold one day, and a few days later was the last time I ever saw her. She hooked up with someone else a couple months later, and they're still together to my knowledge. I won't bother you guys with details, what's the point? In one way or another, all our narratives are a like. But the point is, it took me a year and a half to get over a 3 year relationship. And when I say get over, I mean I'm starting to live normally again. Going out, working out, working etc. However, I did force myself to deeply reflect on us, just now, to see how over her I really was. And the truth is, it still hurts, and probably always will. Hope everyone is well. It's usually the 3 yr Mark u totally let go. Wat I've found is at that 3 yr point u let go and meet ur next soulmate. I remember I was in a 6 mth relationship ended so abruptly I went a rebound relationship after but cld never stop thinking about her. I finally sent her a xmas card 3 yrs later just basically saying how I regretted some things. A day or so later my mum told me she called. I never called back. A cpl days later I met myou now ex wife lol wich lasted 10 yrs. Thathe 6 mth one was so painful. In my experience it always takes about 3 yrs. My ex wife took a lil longer because I hadn't really processed the loss properly and tried to run away from the pain. I remember yrs later seeing she was pregnant and it stoll hurt. 10 yrsl later she's time king my fb photos and I was capable of blocking her and not think8ng about it. To this day tho stil tho that was probably still the best relationship I had. The latest one was 6 yrs and painful because I have to see her at wo4k and she's hooked up wth someone that works there. We were probably the best connected but worst wen it came to circumstancestablish. She had kids and it realy complicated things. Anyway love ur post a yr and half ur functioning aging 2 yrs it fades out still som3 slight pangs 3 yrs fully over where it wouldn't bother u if u saw her wth someone new.
Author JustAnotherLostLove Posted March 31, 2017 Author Posted March 31, 2017 Congrats. Not to burst your bubble, but imo you're not over it until you stop thinking about her daily and don't give a damn about what she's doing. Where it doesn't "hurt". By your definition, I got over my ex after a week. But here I am still on these forums wondering if she'll come back. But, I will say I'm progressing. It's all good. But I don't think about her daily, wonder, or want for her to come back. I do miss her, but don't want her. She's wrong for me.
Author JustAnotherLostLove Posted March 31, 2017 Author Posted March 31, 2017 wow a year and a half.. I find this quite scary.. did you date anyone else or meet anyone else in that time? That's just me tho, it always takes me a long time to let go. But for what it's worth, I've always kept that to myself, and never harassed any of my exes after the fact. No, I haven't met anybody else, or even looked to be honest. I'll wait till life presents the opportunity, organically. I'm guessing you thought of yourself when you read the post?
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