I am crazy about her, what should I do?

[Superman-1000]

I' am interested in one girl,she is very pretty,nice,dear,always smiliing,cultural,all the praise. She is from Venice I am also from Venice...but she left to the Rome to studying and has excellent grades,she is very smart. She is 20 years old and I'm 21. She had boyfriend when she was only 15 year old but they broke up when she was 17. After that she had another guy but they broke up when she was 19 year old. I' dont belive that those two guys were only mens in her life. It bothers me and disgusts me fact that she started being with boys so early when she was only 15 years practically child. If she started with 15 I hate even think what she's doing now with 20 in a big city like Rome.

 

[] Every day I think of her although we poorly hear and see each other. Although she study in Rome she came to Venice to spend there Summer time,Christmas, New Year, Easter and all holidays. I see her everytime when she comes in Venice but I never get quite enough courage to approach her and try to seduce.

 

What should I do? I need good advice! The last time she saw me I was weak and thin but in the meantime I became strong and muscular,her first boyfriend was also strong and muscular probably she likes that that type of mens.

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[preraph]

What boyfriends or sex she has had in the past has NOTHING to do with you. You have no claim to her and she is clearly not a virgin, so if you want a virgin, look elsewhere. Otherwise, if you act all judgy or distrustful, you will make this never work. Just because someone has had partners does NOT mean they will cheat!

 

[] The point is, you have a problem of some kind judging women having sex as if it's a bad thing. I suspect this may be a double standard, but if it is not, then I suspect you fear she is more skilled in bed than you are. Either way, you have no right to judge her for it.

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[Superman-1000]

Of course it has to do with me beacuse I don want for girlfriend or wife the girl who has sex with half a city or girl who start being with guys while she was practically child while she was 15 ****ing years! I newer say that my girlfriend or wife must be virgin,of course it is normal for womens to have sex but start with 15-16 years is not normal,it's not normal when girls in that age are changing guys. That type of girls nobody want for serious relationship and marriage, that kind of girls are good only for sex.

[Life lessons]

Of course it has to do with me beacuse I don want for girlfriend or wife the girl who has sex with half a city or girl who start being with guys while she was practically child while she was 15 ****ing years! I newer say that my girlfriend or wife must be virgin,of course it is normal for womens to have sex but start with 15-16 years is not normal,it's not normal when girls in that age are changing guys. That type of girls nobody want for serious relationship and marriage, that kind of girls are good only for sex.

 

Honestly the age she lost her virginity is really not your business. Also, just because she lost her virginity at a young age doesn't necessarily mean she's been with a lot of guys. You say you're crazy about her yet you're kinda contradicting yourself saying the above. Lots of people aren't honest about the number of sexual encounters they've had...so even if you do get a number from her, it doesn't mean it's the truth.....and in all honesty, it really isn't your concern or problem. If you're doubting the kind of person she is then how can you say you're crazy about her??

 

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[todreaminblue]

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you sound very judgmental at 21 ......and you shouldnt be.....[].......deb

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[Superman-1000]

It' s hard to belive that girl how started with only 15 years are not benn at least with 4-5 guys until she was 20 years old. I' am crazy about her beacuse she is special, that smile, that look, that sweet voice, that face like an angel, that red hair like Rose from Titanic,that ass and breasts oh my Good ❤❤❤! I' never ask her the number of partners but she has benn 2 years in relatshionship with first boyfriend and between 1 and 2 years in relatshionship with second boyfriend...surely she slept with both of the twose guys because that was serious relationships not jokes. That 2 guys are surely ****ed her,who knows if she had another ****ers whom she was not in relatshionship just for fun and for sex... probably yes.

[Life lessons]

If it's bothering you that much then don't pursue her. Her sexual partners are not your concern and never will be....even if you two get together. That's her past...not yours! If you can't deal with it then it'd be wise not to pursue her.

[CollegeKid101]

It' s hard to belive that girl how started with only 15 years are not benn at least with 4-5 guys until she was 20 years old. I' am crazy about her beacuse she is special, that smile, that look, that sweet voice, that face like an angel, that red hair like Rose from Titanic,that ass and breasts oh my Good ❤❤❤! I' never ask her the number of partners but she has benn 2 years in relatshionship with first boyfriend and between 1 and 2 years in relatshionship with second boyfriend...surely she slept with both of the twose guys because that was serious relationships not jokes. That 2 guys are surely ****ed her,who knows if she had another ****ers whom she was not in relatshionship just for fun and for sex... probably yes.

 

Seems like you have incredibly low self-esteem and confidence issues. You should probably work on those before you pursue somebody who you already have preconceived notions about. She can do what she wants. I would say find someone else, but I think you need to work on your personal issues first.

 

You're a virgin, aren't you?

[preraph]

You need to change your way of thinking about women. They're just as human as men, and more so than some.

[act00]

You sound highly judgmental and that is not a good way to start off a relationship.

 

It's perfectly normal to date at that age. You should be looking at the fact that she has been in long-term, stable relationships.

 

[] If you want a virgin, look elsewhere or this will be a constant issue. The older you get, the harder it will be to find someone who has not had a relationship, let alone sex. Then you'll be judgy if a woman is 30 and hasn't had sex or a relationship. You're getting nowhere with this attitude.

 

Everyone has a past.

 

You need to work on your own issues before pursuing her or other women.

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[xUnknown]

How has nobody gone off on this "guy" yet??

 

You need to mature. Her past isn't any of your business. Get over it. Accept it or not. It also sounds to me like you know very little of her past.

 

I never get quite enough courage to approach her

Sounds to like you have a crush on this girl and the only "history" you know about her, has been from word of mouth. Have you even talked to her before? Have you asked her out? What do YOU know about her that YOU got by asking her yourself? Get to know her before judging her. This is NOT how you treat a woman. You sound like a controlling *******. I hope she realizes this.

 

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Just because she had a boyfriend at 15, you assume she had sex with him? Maybe she waited a few years before sleeping with him, YOU DO NOT KNOW. You're jumping to conclusions and coming off like an *******. (reality check, 15 is pretty normal to have a boyfriend/girlfriend, and 16 is pretty normal for a girl to lose her virginity. Statistically, boys are older when they lose their virginity).

 

 

 

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Seems like you have incredibly low self-esteem and confidence issues. You should probably work on those before you pursue somebody who you already have preconceived notions about. She can do what she wants. I would say find someone else, but I think you need to work on your personal issues first.

 

You're a virgin, aren't you?

 

I got the same feeling. I would also say this post is a pretty good example of why he is/would be a virgin. No respect at all towards women. These are the type of guys that give men a bad name. My 19 year old brother has more respect towards women than he does.

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[Superman-1000]

You sound highly judgmental and that is not a good way to start off a relationship.

 

It's perfectly normal to date at that age. You should be looking at the fact that she has been in long-term, stable relationships.

 

[] If you want a virgin, look elsewhere or this will be a constant issue. The older you get, the harder it will be to find someone who has not had a relationship, let alone sex. Then you'll be judgy if a woman is 30 and hasn't had sex or a relationship. You're getting nowhere with this attitude.

 

Everyone has a past.

 

You need to work on your own issues before pursuing her or other women.

Dating with 15 years is normal for guys but not for girls. Daiting,going out with mens and having sex is job for adult womens not for children. Even worse if she has been in long-term relationships with that guys ( and she was) this means that they regularly had sex with her,they had sex with her probably every day or every other day...and it pisses me off. I'm not sure is she really a slut but but I' have a suspicion.

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[Superman-1000]

I know enough about her past. Of course she had sex with her first boyfriend beacuse they were toagether 2 years and not 2 months they broke up when she was 17 years old. What men would have remained in relationship 2 years without sex? None! In 2 years relationship that guy certainly success to **** her...if not then he is really a special nerd. I' dont judge her beacuse of the color of her hair but I heard and read that red-haired girls are more sluttier than other girsl,they have more sex,they change more partners...I' dont now is that always true I' am just saying what I heard and read. It' not normal when girl with only 15 years have boyfriend, even worse is when girl with 16 years had sex...with boys is different for us is never early. I' am not virgin,I had a few girls...interesting It never botherd me number of partners of those girls, but with this girl is different I am very jealous beacuse of her former partners,I hate even thinking that other guys had sex with her!

[kendahke]

Wow... you mad or nah?

 

She has every right to live her life exactly how she sees fit and what you think about it is non sequitur.

 

[] If she's been dating guys since she was 15, clearly her parents had no problem with letting her do that and now that she's grown, she has every right to see whom she chooses to see, how she wants to see them and what she does with them.

 

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You might want to reconsider your tack--you're steering your ship towards the rocks.

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[kendahke]

Of course it has to do with me beacuse I don want for girlfriend or wife the girl who has sex with half a city or girl who start being with guys while she was practically child while she was 15 ****ing years!

 

then don't deal with her. Problem solved.

[SoulCat]

Nevermind the fact that you're not even vaguely on this woman's radar (seeing as you've not had the cojones to approach her so far), she will likely not have much time for you and your archaic ideas about women and their sexuality.

 

 

Do yourself a favour and leave her be. Find a nice virginal, prim, non red-haired girl to introduce to your views on women. I'm sure she'll be far more receptive.

[Superman-1000]

[] Her parents are not quite normal if they knew that she had boyfriend when she was only 15 years old, that parents are not normal if they allowed her to do that in that age.

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