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I met a gorgeous Ukranian girl Sunday night at a bar. She came in with a guy who was a splitting image of Jude Law. I started chatting with them and he invited me to join them for a smoke outside. I assumed they were together but joined them anyway. Turns out, they just met the night before at the Abbey (the famous gay nightclub in West Hollywood) and that was significant... Anyway, after the smoke, he called an Uber and asked her to get in, but she decides to stay (I'm kinda stunned) but presumably with me. He then insisted all three of us take the Uber to another bar but I offered to drive instead. I looked her straight in the eyes and got a good vibe. She accepted and we were on our way. At the next bar we started chatting and turns out he she is visiting from Ukraine for a month. He is bisexual and because I made the Jude Law comment, he thought I was hitting on him and wanted a threesome. I told him I was straight. She said she was straight as well. At that point he was very drunk, got visibly pissed, and started saying some really stupid $h!t and walked away. Just like that, it was the two us so I bought her a drink (which she declined when he offered) and we started talking more intimately. She invited me to a jazz club Monday night and gave me her number. Then drunk Jude Law reappeared, grabbing her drink and finishing it. I just smiled it off because his whole inadvertent good cop / bad cop thing was working wonders for me. So next, he insists that we go to his apartment to get high, she seems hesitant but agrees. I have to pay the bill so I'm stuck at the bar for 5+ minutes while they're outside smoking. When I finally get outside, neither is to be seen anywhere.

 

I text her "Where'd you go?" She replies "Sorry I had to get away from him." I replied "Good call. I'll talk to you tomorrow". She replies "OK" with an exclamation, smiley face, and thumbs up.

 

So last night I text her about 7PM trying to confirm plans. We talked about meeting at 10PM that was shaky at best as we didn't have a proper goodbye. I didn't hear from her so I decided to head out at 9PM to the jazz club anyway - she got me psyched about going (obviously way better if she was there). At 930PM she replies that she's out with friends. I told her I was already at the club and invited her to join me. Radio silence for about an hour then she replies "I'm not sure about this, I don't know you well". We texted a few more times but replies were sporadic. I finally decided to head home at about 1130PM and wrote "I'm heading home. Thanks for the recommendation on a great jazz bar. I'm sad you couldn't make it out though." She didn't reply and I figured I would never hear from her again.

 

630PM tonight she replies "You're welcome." I'm like "Really? OK not dead". So I replied within a few minutes "Hi. Did you have a good day?" No reply for over 2 hours. So then I start writing this thread. Now literally as I'm finishing this post, I just got a reply seconds ago "Yes. Perfect!" WTF??? I'm pretty certain my window of opportunity passed when it took forever to close out my tab and Jude Law spooked her out, but what's up with the sporadic texting? Either stop replying or agree to meetup...

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Tressugar Established Member

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I don't think she's interested. Her reply to you about not knowing you too well after she's already met doesn't sit well with me.

 

I wouldn't hang my hat on this one.

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Don't waste anymore time, delete her number...

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I met a gorgeous Ukranian girl Sunday night at a bar. She came in with a guy who was a splitting image of Jude Law. I started chatting with them and he invited me to join them for a smoke outside. I assumed they were together but joined them anyway. Turns out, they just met the night before at the Abbey (the famous gay nightclub in West Hollywood) and that was significant... Anyway, after the smoke, he called an Uber and asked her to get in, but she decides to stay (I'm kinda stunned) but presumably with me. He then insisted all three of us take the Uber to another bar but I offered to drive instead. I looked her straight in the eyes and got a good vibe. She accepted and we were on our way. At the next bar we started chatting and turns out he she is visiting from Ukraine for a month. He is bisexual and because I made the Jude Law comment, he thought I was hitting on him and wanted a threesome. I told him I was straight. She said she was straight as well. At that point he was very drunk, got visibly pissed, and started saying some really stupid $h!t and walked away. Just like that, it was the two us so I bought her a drink (which she declined when he offered) and we started talking more intimately. She invited me to a jazz club Monday night and gave me her number. Then drunk Jude Law reappeared, grabbing her drink and finishing it. I just smiled it off because his whole inadvertent good cop / bad cop thing was working wonders for me. So next, he insists that we go to his apartment to get high, she seems hesitant but agrees. I have to pay the bill so I'm stuck at the bar for 5+ minutes while they're outside smoking. When I finally get outside, neither is to be seen anywhere.

 

I text her "Where'd you go?" She replies "Sorry I had to get away from him." I replied "Good call. I'll talk to you tomorrow". She replies "OK" with an exclamation, smiley face, and thumbs up.

 

So last night I text her about 7PM trying to confirm plans. We talked about meeting at 10PM that was shaky at best as we didn't have a proper goodbye. I didn't hear from her so I decided to head out at 9PM to the jazz club anyway - she got me psyched about going (obviously way better if she was there). At 930PM she replies that she's out with friends. I told her I was already at the club and invited her to join me. Radio silence for about an hour then she replies "I'm not sure about this, I don't know you well". We texted a few more times but replies were sporadic. I finally decided to head home at about 1130PM and wrote "I'm heading home. Thanks for the recommendation on a great jazz bar. I'm sad you couldn't make it out though." She didn't reply and I figured I would never hear from her again.

 

630PM tonight she replies "You're welcome." I'm like "Really? OK not dead". So I replied within a few minutes "Hi. Did you have a good day?" No reply for over 2 hours. So then I start writing this thread. Now literally as I'm finishing this post, I just got a reply seconds ago "Yes. Perfect!" WTF??? I'm pretty certain my window of opportunity passed when it took forever to close out my tab and Jude Law spooked her out, but what's up with the sporadic texting? Either stop replying or agree to meetup...

 

Your strangers she's doesn't even know you. You have short night with her with another guy who wasn't good for her either. You just had stumbled into their hanging out. You got stuck paying their bill and she left to get away from you and that other guy. Yes you too. Just write this one off. She's visiting from her country she'll end up going back their. I doubt you'll see her again because the way she text you with ghosting and short answers. She's not interested in you and if she was she would have stuck around after you had paid the bill. But you did the right thing and you had gone to the Jazz club and you really like it. She didn't go and you can't expect her to go she had gone out with other friends instead. So she changed her plans. You gone anyway. Again don't waste your time with her move on and looks for someone who want to hangout with you instead of those women who are not digging you like you want.

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She didn't want to meet you, then the texts that follow were untimely and brief. She's not interested, move on.

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Fail......lose that number.

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You got stuck paying their bill and she left to get away from you and that other guy. Yes you too.

I didn't get stuck paying the bill. He bought the first round and then I bought her a drink. She was definitively interested or she wouldn't have invited me to jazz. Probably drunk-interested but definitely interested. Anyway was getting tired of the slow response so I texted her "You're much more interesting in person than by text..." Which got an immediate reply "Sorry my english is not so good when I text." To which I replied "I was joking..." and then wrote her off...

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