xxgreen20 Posted March 28, 2017 Posted March 28, 2017 I am a freshman in college, and there is this girl who is a junior whom I suspect may be interested in me. I am skeptical in that fact just because she's a junior, and since when are juniors interested in freshman? Additionally, my last girlfriend was a cougar and eventually ditched me after finding someone her age (read my previous threads and you'll know lol). I have one class with this girl, and she always talks to me and says hello to me enthusiastically when she walks into class. One day I was giving a tour to a group of people visiting campus, and she said hello to me before I even saw her. Didn't stop to talk, just said "Hello xx" and smiled. Whenever we are walking opposite ways on the path, she smiles and waves to me enthusiastically. And I was absent from class last night for another obligation, and I ran into her in the dining hall today, and she said, "XX, where were you last night?" I told her where I was and asked her what I missed in class, and she told me and we awkwardly smiled and parted ways. Whenever she sits next to me in class, she will sometimes whisper to me about something the professor is saying or something that is going on in the room. She is pretty outgoing in general, so I am still a little skeptical, only because of the fact that she's a junior and they are usually not interested in freshmen, but doesn't mean it's impossible. I am also 99% sure I'll be transferring next year, so it probably wouldn't be worth pursuing, but in my case, does it sound like she is into me? Even if I don't pursue anything, it is a nice ego boost, and I am honestly curious as to what you guys think. She called me by my nickname once when emailing me about an assignment (just short for my full name), so just wanted opinions.
smackie9 Posted March 28, 2017 Posted March 28, 2017 Don't know......the only way to find out is to ask her out on a date...that's how adults do it.
Author xxgreen20 Posted March 28, 2017 Author Posted March 28, 2017 I can't edit the OP, but I wanted to say that I felt her noticing my absence last night was quite significant. The class has only about 10 people, but still.
Author xxgreen20 Posted March 28, 2017 Author Posted March 28, 2017 Don't know......the only way to find out is to ask her out on a date...that's how adults do it. Well, I'm asking for opinions. You can't give me one?
smackie9 Posted March 28, 2017 Posted March 28, 2017 Well, I'm asking for opinions. You can't give me one? TBH I'm only getting your perspective so it seems to me you are seeing things through affectionate eyes, so I can't really determine anything....it's 50/50. With some girls they are only looking for attention, not a BF. You want to increase your chances....stop being so insecure, and go in ballz a blazing.
telemakus Posted March 28, 2017 Posted March 28, 2017 Well, I'm asking for opinions. You can't give me one? Hardest thing in the world to judge. The old chesnut thar I've found most reliable is if you can get her in a situation with a group of people where people are laughing and joking around, observe how she reacts whenever the group goes up in a roar if laughter. If she looks towards you first everytime, I've found that's a pretty good indicator that she at least has a special affection for you. ignore the old body language clichés like playing with hair. according to that 75% of the women I meet want to jump me!
clia Posted March 28, 2017 Posted March 28, 2017 I can't edit the OP, but I wanted to say that I felt her noticing my absence last night was quite significant. The class has only about 10 people, but still. I honestly don't think it's significant at all that she noticed you were absent from a class with only 10 people, especially considering that she occasionally sits by you. Of course she noticed you weren't there. It's hard to say if she's interested or just being friendly. If you ask her out on a date, you will get the answer.
CaliforniaGirl Posted March 28, 2017 Posted March 28, 2017 A few things do sound like interest, like hurrying to say hello even if there's nothing else to be said (v. just saying it in passing with a group of other "hellos" or whatever), but it's hard to say unless you actually ask her out or unless she asks you out. She likes you one way or another...she feels she can be friendly toward you.
preraph Posted March 28, 2017 Posted March 28, 2017 You're making too fine a distinction there. Obviously, this girl is friendly. She doesn't know you, so obviously she doesn't really know if she "like-likes" you or not. And she's never going to find out if you don't take a shot and ask her on a date.
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