Mr_Sadz Posted March 27, 2017 Posted March 27, 2017 I while ago i wrote a post on this forum. It was about my girlfriend breaking up with me. Alot of stuff happend. But i changed for the better i let the break up change me into a better person. She noticed this and started to see that the things she thought mattered, did not matter. We talked for 6 hours straight and we decided to get back together. But now four months later she is in emotional trouble. She cannot handle school, family (Her family has problems) and her emotions (She goes to psychotherapy) There for she said she could not handle the emotional responsibility she feels by being with me. I asked and she could not bring her self to say she does not love me, or she does not wish we could be together. But her decision was school and family. I said i cannot accept you love me, but dont want to be in a relationship. So now we are in a form of long distance relation ship. We agreed to not talk or see each other. Only when we both have energy enough to do so. But i dont know if this is just her trying to break up, or if i should just wait for her. Im going through some of the pain i felt before where she actually broke up with me. But now im not sure. I dont know if she will come back. I hear that i should just dump her. But i love her to much. She seriously feels like the one for me. What can i do? Last time it worked to me myself and enjoy life. Be confident. That made her come back. But now i dont know what to hope for
Knix Posted April 10, 2017 Posted April 10, 2017 As the saying goes "put on your own mask, before you assist anyone else". If she's going through some stuff, be there for her, but take care of yourself first and foremost. Do you have a bad feeling she is going to hurt you? Would you consider having an open relationship where you can see other people during this time for her? I think she likes to have you around, but isn't sure she wants to get tied down to you, which is why I suggest you date other people. You don't need to cut her off, but it sounds like she's unsure and there's no use in you getting hurt over that.
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