notsointerested Posted March 27, 2017 Posted March 27, 2017 (edited) Met a really nice girl online, we talked a bit for a while and she said that she was really turned on by the fact that I am still a virgin and I'm quite shy, she also said she finds me attractive. In the time leading up to this she was flirting a lot with me, most of it very sexual. A week or two later, she then says that she wants to come clean and that she isn't really into me romantically and wouldn't want to lead me on. *alarm bells ringing* I said to her that I appreciate what she says and that right now I'm looking for a relationship and I'm not after any hookups. She says it's fine and apologises. Anyway, I still kept her number and more recently she's been more engaging with me and trying to find out what sort of things I like to do and she suggested meeting up for coffee soon. She also has suggested going round to her place when she has her new house. But I've just been going along with the conversation and getting to know more about the things she does. I kinda feel that she's trying to set me up for just taking my virginity (she says she liked that sort of thing) and then she's gonna ghost me. I really find this girl attractive but I can't really tell what her intentions are. Is there anything I can do to try and take this towards any form of romantic relationship and not just a hookup? Advice needed, thanks. Edited March 27, 2017 by notsointerested
Telemachus Posted March 27, 2017 Posted March 27, 2017 She can't take your virginity - so get that thought out of your head. Until you freely give it, you're still a virgin. There is absolutely a way to keep this from being a hookup - keep your pants on and your zipper up. It's as simple as that. I really don't see the problem or question. 2
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