Sango118 Posted March 27, 2017 Posted March 27, 2017 (edited) It's been nearly one month since my partner of many years broke up with me. Today is the fifth day of no contact and I'm starting to struggle. I miss speaking to him so much, we used to talk almost everyday and spent as much time together as we could for so many years. We were each others best friend and depended on each other so much. I wish for him to come back someday, but I hurt him too much with my lack of affection, the disagreements and not giving him what he needed in the relationship. He also said that I'm to blame for some of his depression/unhappiness in life and said that he doesn't ever want to come back. I don't know how he is right now since I've started not contacting him. He's still been having ups and really bad downs some days in the past few weeks. I'm quite worried about him, but I needed to stop contact to try to heal myself. Edited March 27, 2017 by Sango118
Jagged100 Posted March 27, 2017 Posted March 27, 2017 Hang in there, it will be harder some days than others. What you're going through is normal. Focus on yourself and doing things to distract you. Whatever his reasons for the breakup were you need to move past the guilt or you'll destroy yourself. It takes 2 people for a relationship to auto, always remember that.
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