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Am I looking for love in the wrong places(foreign man)


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So I have been on a website where you can look for international pen pals and participate in language exchange. I signed up for the site to improve my skills in a language. I have been getting many messages from many men but there is one man in particular who sticks out.

 

We have been messaging daily and I have talked almost daily on the phone with him ( which I rarely ever ever do with any guy). He makes me laugh. He asks about my life. It's so strange because I feel really comfortable with him. He is also really respectful. He has not been disgusting or perverted in any way in fact it was me who brought up the subject of cuddling.

 

Anyway, I am in the U.S. and he is in Morocco (yes he is Muslim). He wants me to come and visit one day and me being crazy enough I just might do it.In terms of finances, he doesn't have much and still lives home. I am also not very wealthy myself so I am not one to judge. He has told me of many of the great things that we can do there and I am excited about it.

 

Here in the U.S. I rarely ever get approached by men. I have tried online dating and I have not found anyone to my liking. I know this guy is very far away and it's very early on but I like him.

 

Any thoughts on this? Am I being foolish?

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Where do you expect it to go?

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How funny? I too have been talking to a Muslim acquaintance and made a thread about it lol. Morroco is still a Muslim country and it's like what does he expect you coming over there? Dating isn't really allowed so what is he looking for? Friendship? Romance? A visa? I'm sure if you came over there it would be considered improper...

 

I would be cautious. And why can't he visit you first? Where will you be staying if you go? Will he help pay for the ticket? How long have you guys been communicating?

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