My ex is befriending my best friends

[Butterfly213]

So I was in a very toxic relationship, I met this AMAZING man who made me feel special in one minute more than my ex did in 6 months . Whenever I wanted to break up with my ex my best friends would convince me not to . I eventually broke up with him . I've been seeing this guy for one month and honestly I'm in love.. .

It's not like he's their friend, they're my best friends and I introduced him to them

 

However, I'm not getting the support from my best friends, they're going out with my ex, " taking his side" , they don't understand how toxic he was to me and they don't understand that I was over him by the time I broke up with him.They keep repeating the same sentences : your ex misses you so much . And I keep saying : I don't care he should move on and they accuse me of being heartless to him .They're purposely not respecting my decision .THey don't approve my new man and honestly it hurts my new man that he's not getting approval from my environment .

 

Yesterday they were all out with my ex without telling me ,and when I talked to one of my best friends she abstained from commenting ,and when I told her about my the guy I'm seeing she said " you're moving on too fast stop seeing him" and I honestly am so confused... Why is my ex befriending my friends?

Edited March 26, 2017 by Butterfly213

[fromheart]

Time to get yourself some better friends.

[ExpatInItaly]

I agree with fromheart. These people don't sound they're your friends; you need to start making new ones.