Guitarisgood Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 I've recently moved into this place and clicked instantly with the girl staying here. The thing is, this is the first time I've moved out of home so I'm a bit curious what is going on. During the early times she bought up her single status and would blush around me. She continues to blush whenever I'm shirtless. Circumstances have meant we stay home a lot and we stay up til late at night chatting and watching shows together. When we're away, we pretty much text constantly non-stop. Lately we've been floating around each others rooms a lot discussing the most menial things. She was sitting on my bed at one stage and for a split second I almost went in for the kiss. It is funny that her friends and even herself have mentioned before she has never been a people person and very introverted she really is not to mention her selfishness. Yet she has mentioned it a few times how when I leave she is not sure what she'll do; not to mention how she shares everything with me. Me personally, I am struggling. I know I've developed feelings for her but do I really like her or is it simply us both with an aspect of mutual isolation having moved to this new city. I know a few of you will tell me this is off the cards but thing is, we are on a rolling lease so I can leave any time. Furthermore I am well paid enough that I could easily find another household should that time come. So am I being daft and is this how roommates really are?
smackie9 Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 Is it not obvious??....she wants to smash with you! Stop over thinking and have a good time whatever this thing is...could be just a fun fling, FWB, or whatever...who cares what happens.... you will be getting some and that's all you should be concerned with. 2
Mumbles Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 Its more common than you'd think. Its one of the reason why young/new couples who don't live together get jealous of 'the roommate' because everyone knows just how commonly things just happen. Its also the reason why holidaying with friends of the opposite sex, without taking your significant other, is usually frowned upon. Nature simply tends to take its course. Its not a given of course, and people will probably have a go at my comment, but its pretty common. In your situation, its already going to be tough, no matter what you decide to do. The girl here obviously likes you and 'more' is on the cards. If you go ahead, theres always the risk it will be a flash romance and end with one of you moving out. Alternatively, you think with you big head and don't pursue her ... but how will that pan out when you eventually bring a girl home? Badly I suspect. On balance, if it were me, I'd go for it, as Smackie9 suggests and lets the chips fall where they may. It could be great, it could be horrible, heh, but its always worth taking the chance for romance. 1
KBob Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 Don't worry if it's how roomates are, it's how two people of the opposite sex are! You're overthinking it, your feeling this way because you're attracted to her; you're not in prison where isolation makes your cell mate start to look good! Like Smackie said, start smashing her!
Tressugar Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 Simply put, you don't poop in your own yard! Yeah she's interested in you, but if/when things go south I'd suggest you find a back up place to live.
Imajerk17 Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 (edited) She wants you to play your stick and really strum it up good for her, and I don't mean your guitar. Edited March 25, 2017 by Imajerk17
coolheadal Posted March 26, 2017 Posted March 26, 2017 I've recently moved into this place and clicked instantly with the girl staying here. The thing is, this is the first time I've moved out of home so I'm a bit curious what is going on. During the early times she bought up her single status and would blush around me. She continues to blush whenever I'm shirtless. Circumstances have meant we stay home a lot and we stay up til late at night chatting and watching shows together. When we're away, we pretty much text constantly non-stop. Lately we've been floating around each others rooms a lot discussing the most menial things. She was sitting on my bed at one stage and for a split second I almost went in for the kiss. It is funny that her friends and even herself have mentioned before she has never been a people person and very introverted she really is not to mention her selfishness. Yet she has mentioned it a few times how when I leave she is not sure what she'll do; not to mention how she shares everything with me. Me personally, I am struggling. I know I've developed feelings for her but do I really like her or is it simply us both with an aspect of mutual isolation having moved to this new city. I know a few of you will tell me this is off the cards but thing is, we are on a rolling lease so I can leave any time. Furthermore I am well paid enough that I could easily find another household should that time come. So am I being daft and is this how roommates really are? Back in July 2016, I met a lady we had hit it off then Aug 2016 something bad happen. Cut off in Sept 2016. She had contacted me in Nov 2016. Been back with her ever since. I even moved her into my house now. I have what you have now but it's fine with me. I have a crush on mine. She use to be very famous too. I say you have the fun you can with her like what I am doing now. We men got to have fun and with the right one. She's like yours an invert also. Sometimes those seem to be the best ones to have. I hope you can cook? Most of these women don't like cooking or doing anything. I'll do all the cooking and I don't mine. The dishes I do mine. Just enjoy the moment you have with her as that's what I doing myself. smile, Laugh, joke kiss, hug, snug, and fuddle...
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