Jenny02 Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 Hi all. I have a cousin brother who is younger than me.But I'm really very close with him.I'm his favourite sister.we both staying in different countries.When I visit him,he showed his friend pic and said indirectly that he wants both of us to get marry.his fren is same age as me.his fren knows me well and i noe him also.But never seen each other directly.my bro and his fren will always talk about me.I cant understand why my bro suddenly said this.After I came back home,my bro send his fren picture telling he is coming in show.I went n see his show and he was super cute.I really like him.but I cant understand y my bro suddenly say he wants me to marry his fren.Does his fren likes me?I'm confused.I really like him as well.But I'm afraid to tell this to my bro.What if he and his fren was juz playing.give me a solution.Thanks a lot!!
smackie9 Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 Do you know what a wing man is? Your bro is his friend's wing man...putting in a good word for him, helping his buddy get with you. Probably one day his friend saw your pic, thought you were cute and said I wouldn't mind hitting that...then your bro probably said, I will help you out with that. So he playfully says you two should marry just to tease you but send a message to you that his friend likes you. There you have it. 2
Author Jenny02 Posted March 25, 2017 Author Posted March 25, 2017 Hi there.I thought the same thing.my bro is very protective of me.he has a fren who is a playboy.If he said such a thing to my bro,he is dead.He would not have send me a indirect mesaage like this.This guy probably should be a nice guy.now the thing is I really like his fren.Not based on looks only but character as well.He is hardworking n independent.Honestly,I want to marry him because i dont want to marry a stranger whom anyone dont know personally.And i feel he is the perfect match for me. I'm afraid to tell this to my bro because this will hurt him and he would say he just played with me.I dont want to look like a fool.i like him since 1 yr.
Author Jenny02 Posted March 25, 2017 Author Posted March 25, 2017 Hi there.I thought the same thing because when my bro was telling this to me he was messaging his fren.My bro is very protective of me.He has a fren who is a playboy.If he said such to him he is dead.He would not have send me any indirect message like this.Probably does he support the idea because he is nice n trustwhorthy guy?but now I really like his fren.Not base on looks only but character as well.He told abt him.He is hardworking & independent.honestly,I want to marry him.I rather marry someone whom someone we are close with know personally than a stranger whom we know nothing.But I'm afraid to tell this to my bro.what if he say he was just playing.I don't want to look like a fool.And what if he doesn't like the idea now?This happen last year.I like him since one year.
smackie9 Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 Skid that marry part.....you can't make that decision until you are in a relaitonship for awhile and it's mutual to do so. you are just being silly about this. If you like the person, contact them and start talking....leave your bro out of it, and put your big girl panties on. 1
Author Jenny02 Posted March 26, 2017 Author Posted March 26, 2017 (edited) I agree with what you said.He might just like me but not really have intention to marry me.I must see his side as well.It must be mutual.But I cant talk to his fren coz my bro never introduced him to me.I cant talk to him without not letting noe to my bro.That will a betrayal.same goes to his fren.He cant talk to me without not letting noe his fren.he is a loyal fren.Shall I just tell my bro about this.He is very close with me and will understand me.If my bro say no then I have no choice but let him go:( Edited March 26, 2017 by Jenny02
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