coolheadal Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 Guys the making of a new account was way before Talked a bit the first time we matched, then we matched again for the second time and agreed to meet, that's it. I decided to write and cancel, if it makes me wonder so much - it's not worth it. No it's not worth it.. Guys, gals everyone doing this stuff. Somewhere, somehow the right guy will come to you I hope so for you. I feel your getting played with the Tinder guys.
Author Lorenza Posted March 25, 2017 Author Posted March 25, 2017 (edited) Lorenza, what is going on in your mind? You are second guessing and putting yourself through an emotional hula-hoop. If this happened in the past, before you two decided, then why bring this up? When I first read this I though, oh-oh, she's trying to make any excuse to contact him. Do you put yourself through such unnecessary uneasiness when you date in general? Ack. Move on. You will CERTAINLY have another opportunity with another guy who will be more responsive. Cause he's handsome damn it! :D I know handsome ones are ashore but I wasn't at all opposed to having a coffee with a fine looking young man hehe And it's not an emotional anything I was just puzzled and disappointed that the guy wasn't that into meeting me. I have other dates booked in the following days anyway so it's just a mild disappointment Edited March 25, 2017 by Lorenza 1
Gr8fuln2020 Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 Cause he's handsome damn it! I strongly suspected it wasn't much more than this. And it's not an emotional anything I was just puzzled and disappointed that the guy wasn't that into meeting me. I have other dates booked in the following days anyway so it's just a mild disappointment It is certainly emotional and I'm not necessarily suggesting that this is negative, rather, your posting and second guessing regarding this 'handsome' stranger seems to illustrate that. You 'wanted' this guy to contact you and it was not trivial. Anyway, go on other dates. You may actually find someone who respects you and your time and may be a little less handsome.
angel.eyes Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 You have two options: Reach out with a text along these lines: just confirming *whatever you agreed to do* at *whatever place* at *whatever time*. See you then! Or just go radiosilent since he has too and make other plans. 1
AndOrchid Posted March 26, 2017 Posted March 26, 2017 Wow, you cancelled? Based on the last exchange you had, I wouldn't expect him to text anything more after you said "Great" and I don't find it unusual that there was no contact in the days following. I would definitely expect him to confirm the date the day before though and wouldn't assume it's still on if I didn't hear from him. I think there was a good chance you would have heard from him if you hadn't jumped the gun and cancelled. Is there a reason you're overthinking this so much? It's not complicated. If he contacts you to confirm, you go on the date. If he doesn't, you make other plans and go on with your life. There was no need to cancel and potentially miss out on a good match. 1
Author Lorenza Posted March 26, 2017 Author Posted March 26, 2017 I did end up going, but it wasn't anything special after all haha! Next
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