Sjohnny08 Posted March 24, 2017 Posted March 24, 2017 Me and my ex girl dated for almost 3 full years, and it's been over 3 months since she broke up with me saying she needed time and space. She said she fell out of love but had no real reasons for the split. I begged for for the first couple weeks, and In the last 3 months I would check up on her text her every couple weeks but she showed no interest. She would say things like "you never know what the future holds" or "give me time to forgive you" never really giving me closure. I wrote her a beautiful letter a month ago she never responded or even brought it up. Then the last time we spoke about 2 weeks ago, she said it bothered her that I bettered myself once she walked away from me, not when she asked me to during the relationship, she then proceeded to block me and my whole family on everything!! So I'm now in no contact for the last two weeks with no idea what she's up to, all I know is she said she's happy and she loves her new job. We broke up a little after she quit her first job out of college, while I still have 2 years remaining till I graduate. She's 22 I'm 20.
KBob Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 I've been in this situation, and I should have never let it happen. I should have cut contact the minute she said she needed space and got on with my life, and that's what you need to do. If you spend time keeping in contact with her, trying to get her back, you're slowly killing your confidence and self esteem by letting her continually reject you. 1
PegNosePete Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 So I'm now in no contact for the last two weeks with no idea what she's up to What she's up to, is getting on with her life, without you. She's made it very clear that the relationship is over, and that she is not interested in revisiting it. So you'll just have to move on too, I'm afraid. This chapter of your life is over. Best to close that book and open another fresh one. 1
breadbin Posted March 25, 2017 Posted March 25, 2017 I agree with the other 2, I'm in this same position and never felt better when I started no contact. I did have a lapse but back on track now. Move on with your life. Forget her. I did the begging too and I did nothing wrong either. Couldn't understand it. Mine gave me a list of faults I had to work on. She said she might get back with me if she seen an improvement. When I think back I realise what a fool I was to even entertain her. But love hurts. Makes us into mush. You're young, get yourself another girl, even get thinking about another girl and move on. Don't contact her anymore. She will come back to keep you on the hook I guarantee. You deserve better.
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