Altair0770 Posted April 19, 2017 Posted April 19, 2017 You tried to bribe her with drugs? Man... go to therapy man. Take a damn hint.
airborne3502 Posted April 19, 2017 Posted April 19, 2017 (edited) I called the army and they said my fingerprints went through fine and they would try to work with me on my criminal charges i just need to lose about 50 pounds before i can join. From what you've posted here, I wouldn't want you to have knowledge of firearms, or be anywhere near them. Edited April 19, 2017 by airborne3502 1
EmilyJane Posted April 19, 2017 Posted April 19, 2017 From what you've posted here, I wouldn't want you to have knowledge of firearms, or be anywhere near them. Amen. Surely they'll trick to it on psych testing?
Author Miserably_depressed Posted April 19, 2017 Author Posted April 19, 2017 You all dont know me judge all you want. I am legal to own firearms and i have knowledge of firearms. Im not even stalking her. I messaged her two times after she blocked me in the same day. Once i realized she wasnt going to reply i quit. If i wanted to stalk her I would. Im not that crazy you are all judgemental. This girl has major problems herself and was very difficult to live with. My father was 101st. She blocked me on our anniversary. She does drugs thats why i asked her. You all are just a bunch of up tight know it alls. Ill figure it out for myself.
EmilyJane Posted April 19, 2017 Posted April 19, 2017 You all dont know me judge all you want. I am legal to own firearms and i have knowledge of firearms. Im not even stalking her. I messaged her two times after she blocked me in the same day. Once i realized she wasnt going to reply i quit. If i wanted to stalk her I would. Im not that crazy you are all judgemental. This girl has major problems herself and was very difficult to live with. My father was 101st. She blocked me on our anniversary. She does drugs thats why i asked her. You all are just a bunch of up tight know it alls. Ill figure it out for myself. Oh come on, you're username is miserably depressed. Look at your over the top reaction just now. It's completely emotionally disproportional. You should absolutely not be around firearms. In my country you wouldn't be permitted. Post for other people's opinions online and that is generally what you get. Not just ones you want to hear. Like, thems the breaks kiddo.
Author Miserably_depressed Posted April 19, 2017 Author Posted April 19, 2017 Yeah because my reaction was so over the top. Lol your country must suck lady
ExpatInItaly Posted April 19, 2017 Posted April 19, 2017 (edited) This girl does not want anything to do with you. It's over. Look at how low you sunk - bribing with drugs? When you're supposed to be in NA and AA? Good heavens, OP. Do you not see how much you're proving to her that you haven't changed one bit? You need to get your act together, OP. This is just sad. Edited April 19, 2017 by ExpatInItaly
anika99 Posted April 19, 2017 Posted April 19, 2017 First this girl was only 17yrs old when you met her and you say that was only a year ago. She doesn't want to be tied down to a serious relationship and she certainly doesn't want to be tied down to a man who abuses her. She is just a teenager for gods sake, let her go live her life and enjoy her youth. She doesn't owe you anything. You choked her. In terms of domestic abuse and its severity, choking is considered very very severe. It is almost the highest level of abuse and is often the precursor to domestic homicide. I don't care how difficult you think this girl was to live with, she was 100% right to leave and if she's smart she will never return. She was difficult? That's what all abusers say. They all blame their victims and believe that they were somehow forced into that behavior by the actions of the victim. Abusers are obsessed with controlling and dominating yet believe that they are being controlled by their victim. Your relationships with this girl was very toxic. Your inability to let her go is also toxic. You were only with her for a year and so this breakup should not cause you so much emotional instability. However it sounds like you are starting to get a grip and are taking steps towards better mental health which is commendable. But before you get into another relationship you simply must get a handle on your abusive nature. Get professional help and get it sorted out before you get involved with another woman. Imagine how much worse this would have been if you had children with your ex? Not only would you have lost her you would have lost your kids too. She would have pressed charges and got a restraining order against you in order to protect the children. You're lucky she only left you and never called the police but the next woman might not let you off so easy. 2
Blanco Posted April 19, 2017 Posted April 19, 2017 You all dont know me judge all you want. I am legal to own firearms and i have knowledge of firearms. Im not even stalking her. I messaged her two times after she blocked me in the same day. Once i realized she wasnt going to reply i quit. If i wanted to stalk her I would. Im not that crazy you are all judgemental. This girl has major problems herself and was very difficult to live with. My father was 101st. She blocked me on our anniversary. She does drugs thats why i asked her. You all are just a bunch of up tight know it alls. Ill figure it out for myself. You've used FOUR accounts to contact her because she keeps blocking you. That's stalking. Maybe you just think stalking is limited to hiding in her bushes but it's totally possible to stalk online and you're definitely doing it. It doesn't matter what sort of problems she has. You sure seem fixated on someone who's supposedly so terrible. Focus on your own issues first before worrying about relationships. 2
mrs rubble Posted April 19, 2017 Posted April 19, 2017 As anika99 said, you're damn lucky she hasn't called the police, bare in mind that she still could- you're harassing her with the fake FB profiles, and you have previously assaulted her- if there are witnesses or text evidence of you doing this she could still call them and have you arrested. You MUST seek anger management AND counselling, until you have dealt with this anger and violent streak you have no business dating anyone. Stay well away from her and clean your act up. Concentrate on you for now, that's all you can do, and write your thoughts to her without sending them.
Bromeo Posted April 19, 2017 Posted April 19, 2017 This thread makes me feel better that I showed up at mines work and told her I loved her, and wanted to marry her. Lol 1
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