Author Soxfaninfl Posted April 24, 2017 Author Posted April 24, 2017 (edited) Well...then leave. You only have one life. I came home on Sunday from visiting my parents, and my wife unloaded on me. She told me to leave if I was unhappy. She told me that she could tell for the last three months that I've been very unhappy, and I've been in a bad mood a lot and have been short with her. She told me that she didn't want me to stay with her out of obligation. She knows that she's been a failure as a wife when it comes to sex. She wants me to be happy. She felt that I didn't love her anymore which I still do. She told me that she loves me as much as she did when we married 2 1/2 years ago. She actually thought I was going to leave her on Friday after my son left for school and also to spend the week (Friday to the following Friday) with his mother. She stayed home that day to work from home. I broke down crying and told her that I've been angry and frustrated about our sexless marriage (which I have told her countless of times). We've only had sex once in almost 2 years (June 2017 will be the 2 year mark). I told her I don't want to leave. I still love her very much. She was a mess. She told me that she needed to be on the antidepressants, and she tried for me to be off them. I don't want to leave her. I still love her very much. I don't want to put her through the pain of divorce also ( I know what if feels like to be thrown away). I asked her why she hasn't been willing to try anything, and she told me that she was afraid to try anything because she was afraid that I would get angry if she asked me to stop. I told her lets try, and if you want me to stop then I will. I know I won't be happy, but I won't show it. I'll tell her we can try another time. I asked her if she would go to counseling, and she said yes. I had already made an appointment for May 6th with a counselor. I was going to bring it up at a later time. I want to try counseling before I give up and to also try hormone therapy or other tings like that. Even if our marriage doesn't work out, I can at least say that I did everything possible to save it. Edited April 24, 2017 by Soxfaninfl 1
Hecan Posted April 24, 2017 Posted April 24, 2017 So glad she is willing to try!!! If the first doesn't work, don't hesitate to tell the Dr. And try something else. Too many options to allow this to continue!! Good luck!
Author Soxfaninfl Posted April 24, 2017 Author Posted April 24, 2017 So glad she is willing to try!!! If the first doesn't work, don't hesitate to tell the Dr. And try something else. Too many options to allow this to continue!! Good luck! Thank you, Hecan.
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