GeekLover Posted June 25, 2017 Posted June 25, 2017 Sorry to hear this. Perhaps she came back out of guilt? Perhaps her and this guy had an argument? Perhaps she just wanted to make sure one last time she was making the right decision? Who knows. Too many people monkeybranch from relationship to relationship. I don't get it.
Bromeo Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 since my last post, alot of things have came to light. The main thing is, her reasons for breaking up with me were excuses. As 2 weeks after she ended it for a second time, she got with a new guy. They are still together now and apparently are extremely happy. I did the "Corey Wayne" walk away for good, and we haven't spoken a single word since the beginning of April. Guess it was all BS from her Sam, lemme weigh in here. I'm sorry you are hurting, I've been in your exact situation with a bs game playing ex, and it sucks bad. First, the hard stuff to hear. The issue isn't her, the issue is you. When reading your threading, you spend a wealth of time analyzing her, wondering, pointing fingers, asking about decency, etc. I understand your point about answers and closure, but, what you are looking for is an ease to the pain, and that comes from you, and not her. Read my thread, I was right there. A man who is centered, content with himself, and focused on his purpose does not accept a fickle woman, who walks in and out of his life, even one who you have five years of history with. I recently cut two people out of my life, one for being exactly that - fickle. Your period of nc was WAY too short to become stable enough emotionally to reignite your relationship. Additionally, a woman who truly loves and cares about you would not let your mother bother her a wit. This was an excuse, plain and simple. What you do not realize is that you have accepted a level of disrespect from this woman that you would not from other people, due to her previous status. If you suspected for a second another man was in play, self respect states to walk away. Corey Wayne's nonsense about playing it cool when your ex is "deciding" is simply bs, and will get you hurt in the long run. Next, the better stuff. Your decision to walk away is absolutely the right one. It sucks bad, I had to do it too. Let her have her chad. These exs all read from the same self-centered breakup manual. I've been on this board roughly a year, and most threads follow a similar pattern in how the dumper acts: Insecurities manufacture a breakup. Immature/insecure ex royally trashes feelings. Loveshack community advises NC and no chasing. Ex heads off with new chad, who was usually sniffing around before the split. New chad doesn't work out - big surprise. Ex tests waters with loveshack poster, leaves again - again big surprise. Loveshack community provides tough, yet supportive care to poster again. I promise you there is pretty little lady who wishes she had a Sam, right this second. Heal up and go find her, but learn about you in the meantime. 2
Marc878 Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 I understand she no longer owes me the truth, but I think I'm entitled to the real reason for breaking things off again because my mom just seems like an excuse seeing as my mom has tried to rebuild the bridges. What do I do now? Because things were going amazing the last 5 weeks, we were happier than ever and then she just dropped another bombshell! If things were amazing you wouldn't be dumped right now. If there is another guy she's not going to tell you. So this is the second time she's dumped you. Gonna try for a third?
SammySammy Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 Sam, what did you learn from this situation? What would you have done differently? How will you use what you've learned in the future? 1
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