Beepeear Posted March 23, 2017 Posted March 23, 2017 (edited) Hello everyone! Me and my girlfriend have been together for a short while (just coming up to three months) and I really enjoy my time with her and I think she's great However, ever since my ex broke up with me I had this hobby of sometimes checking up on her, just casually checking her instagram to see if she has posted anything new or something. She is in a new relationship now but that doesn't bother me, I don't think about my ex and feel jealous of her new relationship, however, sometimes when I look at my new girlfriend my mind sometimes says to me "she looks like my ex) but I have only thought this once and sort of disregarded it in the moment I would never get with my ex again and I prefer my new girlfriend to her, she is more alike me and we get along great, apart from one incident where I had the idea I wasn't exactly what she wanted because of her actions, because of this I went on tinder and liked girls pictures (didn't talk to any) just swiped right I kind of forgot about this but today it has all came back ans I feel super super guilty about it all. Is it bad? Need advice,thanks all Edited March 23, 2017 by Beepeear
Telemachus Posted March 23, 2017 Posted March 23, 2017 Should you tell her that you looked up your ex online or looked at pics on Tinder? You're free to, but I don't see a need to. It isn't the kind of information she needs for any clear purpose. If those are the kinds of life details you discuss in the ordinary course of things, go ahead. Otherwise, it isn't deceptive to omit them, unless she asks. That's because it's one-way, without human interaction. If you'd just been accepted to Yale Law School, were wanted for murder, or had two broken bones from being hit by a car, those are the kinds of things you should tell her. Should you tell her you saw a movie? No need to. Should you tell her you got hired to appear in a movie? Yes, by all means.
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