mag1x Posted March 22, 2017 Posted March 22, 2017 So I have been talking to a guy on a dating app for about a week and a half. Last week, he would respond once in the morning and then once in the evening. I would usually ask questions and he would respond and then say "What about you?" Then the weekend came around and I asked him if he had any fun plans and he stated that he had nothing planned, but that he might check out a new place that i suggested. He then asked what I was doing. I responded with what I was doing and he did not respond to let me know what he thought of the new place. He then did not respond. On Monday, I messaged him and said I was going to delete the app, and that I could add him on another form of social media if he wanted to keep talking. He quickly responded and gave me his info. I added him and he has yet to respond. Why is he taking so long? Is he playing hard to get? If he wasn't interested why did he give me his info? What should I do?
smackie9 Posted March 22, 2017 Posted March 22, 2017 Why? because you are just an option in the internet sea of dating options. What should you do? Keep looking yourself.
CaliforniaGirl Posted March 22, 2017 Posted March 22, 2017 Some guys will just keep adding and adding girls to have more "just in case" options. Don't be a "just in case" 2AM couldn't get anyone decent out clubbin' call. Forget this dude who isn't giving you anything and keep looking around.
Miss Spider Posted March 22, 2017 Posted March 22, 2017 (edited) Op! We all advised last time to let him go, I think? But you contacted him again anyway. haha..Oh, Op.. Just forget him. Is one guy you haven't met yet that can't hold a conversation with you really worth all this trouble? He must be freaking hot... Edited March 22, 2017 by Cookiesandough
pogredad Posted March 24, 2017 Posted March 24, 2017 I think, many peple see chat apps as a game. I don't know if he played with you but many peoples are thinking like that. I don't think you can find the good men on meet apps. But it's just my point of view.
Redhead14 Posted March 24, 2017 Posted March 24, 2017 What should you do? Keeping scouting for dating partners and sit back and relax. He gave the information . . . perhaps he thinks you will reach out. On OLD, there's not really anything "wrong" with being the first to reach out or initiate because there's no other real way to gauge interest. "Hey, thanks for your contact info. How'd you like Xplace?" Some guys just collect "girls" on OLD for back ups when other more imminent or current interests are in play. So chill.
coolheadal Posted March 24, 2017 Posted March 24, 2017 So I have been talking to a guy on a dating app for about a week and a half. Last week, he would respond once in the morning and then once in the evening. I would usually ask questions and he would respond and then say "What about you?" Then the weekend came around and I asked him if he had any fun plans and he stated that he had nothing planned, but that he might check out a new place that i suggested. He then asked what I was doing. I responded with what I was doing and he did not respond to let me know what he thought of the new place. He then did not respond. On Monday, I messaged him and said I was going to delete the app, and that I could add him on another form of social media if he wanted to keep talking. He quickly responded and gave me his info. I added him and he has yet to respond. Why is he taking so long? Is he playing hard to get? If he wasn't interested why did he give me his info? What should I do? First off what the heck is wrong with you! You do not have to settle for this player who's talking to so many women including you at the same time. When it's turn he will reply and what do you do. You quickly reply back. His responses are so lame, and what do you do, you continue to talk. You did the right thing you deleted the app and move on. But what you really did is gave him an option to continue on with his game play with you. Don't you want a real boyfriend or do you want a guy to text too? Your not dating him, your just texting him. So he's your text buddy! Listen if I was you drop him, don't even bother to text him again. He is not worth your time at all. Go and find a real guy for a real dating experience. This is not how it suppose to be. Text say what's up? He replies great, then you say the same. He asks you your plans for this weekend? You say nothing much, and what do you have in mind? Then he would say what he wants to do with you.. If you don't even this then push off and move on to the next guy! Do not have one guy and your waiting on him to answer you. That's what your doing wrong here.
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