Claire84 Posted March 21, 2017 Posted March 21, 2017 Last year I joined a walking group online. I noticed a guy had viewed my profile a few times at the time but we had never met. 8 months went by and I finally made an appearance and met the group in person. The guy who had viewed my profile was there, we didn't speak on the walk. Later at the pub I was the last to sit down and some of them said they had reserved me a seat which was next to him. He said 'sit here and said my name'. I thought that was odd as I not spoke to him or introduced myself. He is very outgoing and has a laugh. I noticed when I spoke to him he didn't or rarely made eye contact but I did catch him look at me. When we left he touched my shoulder on the way out of the door then added me on Facebook. Could he be interested?
CaliforniaGirl Posted March 21, 2017 Posted March 21, 2017 Yes, he could have been...how long ago did this happen and have you spoken with him since?
smackie9 Posted March 21, 2017 Posted March 21, 2017 Of course he is....this guy is unsure about your interest so you better give him some clear signals that you are. No need to be coy, be assertive. 2
Shanex Posted March 21, 2017 Posted March 21, 2017 He is, no doubt and I agree that sometimes we dudes need clear or at least subtle signals to know. He touched your shoulder, added you on FB. What else do you need? A serenade under your balcony? 3
Tressugar Posted March 21, 2017 Posted March 21, 2017 I'm not trying to be funny, but he sounds like a creep. I'd be wary of this one.
basil67 Posted March 21, 2017 Posted March 21, 2017 I think it's too big a leap to assume interest at this point.
pogredad Posted March 24, 2017 Posted March 24, 2017 For sure he was interrested. Even if you didn't talk too him since long time, you can send him a message and see his reaction.
Redhead14 Posted March 24, 2017 Posted March 24, 2017 Last year I joined a walking group online. I noticed a guy had viewed my profile a few times at the time but we had never met. 8 months went by and I finally made an appearance and met the group in person. The guy who had viewed my profile was there, we didn't speak on the walk. Later at the pub I was the last to sit down and some of them said they had reserved me a seat which was next to him. He said 'sit here and said my name'. I thought that was odd as I not spoke to him or introduced myself. He is very outgoing and has a laugh. I noticed when I spoke to him he didn't or rarely made eye contact but I did catch him look at me. When we left he touched my shoulder on the way out of the door then added me on Facebook. Could he be interested? There's song . . . "Making Love Out of Nothing At All". For now, just sit back and observe. If he's really interested, you'll know it and you won't have to be looking for all the "little signs". People touch me on the shoulder and add me on FB all the time, I don't think it means they want me. He wanted you to sit next to him -- how did he interact with you during that time? We see tons of posts here about these little things going on and the poster is here wondering why he did those things but hasn't asked them out and it's been a month or something like that.
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