Aurelius1979 Posted March 21, 2017 Posted March 21, 2017 I have a friend who is girl since more than 10 years. We didn’t really had intense contact with each other the last 7 years hence I was married and she didn’t wanted to interfere (It was only to birthdays and Christmas we were exchanging messages). Anyways, my wife left me last year in April and since September, I and my female friend are texting each other regularly - like every second/third week about how life is and so on (we live in different cities). She invited me several times since last October to come to visit her but we never really found a day. We finally managed to meet this January with her best friend (I know her friend as well) and we spent a whole Saturday afternoon all together. She was complimenting me about my looks and thinks that I am a great and nice person – she told me so. I had explained them how rough my last few months were and that I was on the way to get back on track. Now she is back in town for some courses, we had a dinner last week, and it was great the just to off us (first time) and time was just flying by. During out dinner she mentioned that men and women cannot be friends – I believe it was a hint from her showing interest in me (if I do not interpret it wrong?). We had lots of eyes contact and it felt very comfortable to be with her because I was able to be myself. She told me quite some secrets about herself as well. I texted her after the dinner when I arrived at home that I had a great time and that it was awesome to get to know her better and she responded: “It took us 10 years to get to know each other better but it is never too late ;-)” Now it comes – she has a boyfriend (LDR) since 3 years and she keeps on mentioning that she does not want to be with him because she doesn’t has feelings and that she wants to finish this relationship when visiting him on Easter holidays. I decided to keep my distance and not show that I have feelings for her until she made the decision. When we text she is very responsive and I have think she has feelings for me too. First time we met in 2004, she had a boyfriend too and we just stayed friends. After some time she got together with my best friend for like 3 months during the same year. Those days I thought that there was no interest from her side and I just let it go. In 2009 when I finished my relationship with my ex-girlfriend, I asked her to go on a date with me and she was not positive. Maybe because I still looked beaten up from the post break up and she mentioned that I was looking not good at all. So, I got to know my wife in 2009 but this is another story. All these years I was thinking about her here and there and she never got her out of my mind. I liked her from the first day I saw her, both mentally and physically. It feels like we were attracted to each other since the day we met. So girls, what do you think about her mind set? Do you think she is interested romantically? She mentioned in our last meeting as well that there are not many males out there like me and she didn’t know what to do with her boyfriend (afraid to be alone). She is 33 years old and I’m 37 years old.
preraph Posted March 21, 2017 Posted March 21, 2017 Well, so far so good. Let's see if she does pull the plug on her boyfriend around Easter or not. Do try to take her out one more time before then. Do tell her you really enjoy your time together. That's not saying too much. Tell her "I look forward to spending more time together if you break off with your boyfriend." Good luck. 2
Author Aurelius1979 Posted March 21, 2017 Author Posted March 21, 2017 Thank you for your feedback :-). I'm going to meet her next week - We decided to cook a dinner at my place - lets see how this will go. I will try to tell her those things you were mentioning in your post :-). For sure I won't make any advances on her yet. She wouldn't accept in the first place because she still has a boyfriend and she is not that type of girl (I think its great how she thinks about it). .
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