whichwayisup Posted March 24, 2017 Posted March 24, 2017 You deserve better. Her life is a mess, recently left a marriage and ended a R (affair) with another woman, 6 weeks later she's with you. That in itself screams red flag and I'm sorry you got hurt but you did ignore the flags that were flapping. Best thing you can do is go total no contact and grieve the loss. Don't stalk her on social media or ask any mutual friends (if you have any) about her. NC means no contact and that includes info on her. She isn't ready to settle down and be in a serious relationship. she's with someone else but it's not for love - It's all about her and I highly doubt she's 'taken' with this new one. If anything she should be alone and not date anybody. 1
Author DontBreakEven Posted March 24, 2017 Author Posted March 24, 2017 You deserve better. Her life is a mess, recently left a marriage and ended a R (affair) with another woman, 6 weeks later she's with you. That in itself screams red flag and I'm sorry you got hurt but you did ignore the flags that were flapping. Best thing you can do is go total no contact and grieve the loss. Don't stalk her on social media or ask any mutual friends (if you have any) about her. NC means no contact and that includes info on her. She isn't ready to settle down and be in a serious relationship. she's with someone else but it's not for love - It's all about her and I highly doubt she's 'taken' with this new one. If anything she should be alone and not date anybody. Thank you. That actually does help a lot. I am totally NC and I have removed her from all my social media. I do think in normal circumstances she'd probably be a catch, but these are far from normal circumstances
Author DontBreakEven Posted March 31, 2017 Author Posted March 31, 2017 This is like the dumbest crush I feel like I've ever had. I have no idea why, but I cannot stop thinking about this woman. It's paining me. I deleted her on all social media, so I don't see her sh*t, but I'm just sitting here wondering if she will ever come back into my life. She left everything so open ended, it's driving me nuts. I realize that she's doing the right thing by me: no need to drag me into something when she knows good and well that she's in no spot to be in a relationship right now. But I just can't stop missing her. How do I handle this? Just one day at a time and hope to wake up one day and have completely forgotten??
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