curiouslysearching Posted March 22, 2017 Posted March 22, 2017 I totally get it. I used to have a hard time letting guys down too. But I learned that it's way better than leading them on. And they will respect you for your honesty and for not allowing them to continue their little mating dance definitely better than leading them on and giving them false hope....I would totally agree with that 1
KBob Posted March 23, 2017 Posted March 23, 2017 I totally get it. I used to have a hard time letting guys down too. But I learned that it's way better than leading them on. And they will respect you for your honesty and for not allowing them to continue their little mating dance Of all the breakups I've ever had, the one's where I have left with no hard feelings are when they were honest and called it off, not leaving me with a "wtf was that about?" feeling. So yes, ladies, do be honest. Even if you have to hit the block caller button after. 2
Blanco Posted March 23, 2017 Posted March 23, 2017 Whhhhhy are you even trying to date? Two weeks ago you were doing things involving your ex that had people on here pleading with you to seek counseling. I'm a huge believer in the idea that like attracts like. Meaning, if you have serious baggage/issues that you are not addressing, you're going to attract people who are like that, too. I've seen you lament many times that you can't seem to attract good, quality men. At the risk of sounding harsh, I think it's time to look in the mirror on that one. Best of luck. 3
Author Miss Spider Posted March 23, 2017 Author Posted March 23, 2017 (edited) I've seen you lament many times that you can't seem to attract good, quality men ...that I am also attracted to and click with. Just to be clear. I think nearly all of the men I've met have been good...for someone else. But point otherwise noted. Thanks. Edited March 23, 2017 by Cookiesandough
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