Quiet Storms Posted March 19, 2017 Posted March 19, 2017 You dodged a bullet. It's really not about who pays so much as how she handled it. 3
curiouslysearching Posted March 19, 2017 Posted March 19, 2017 I also like the man to pay for the first date, but I think it was extremely bad form for her to bring it up as a condition. You did the right thing. You are right, it was not appropriate of her to even bring it into the conversation. I would advise you to ask the next girl out and TAKE it out on YOU
CptInsano Posted March 19, 2017 Posted March 19, 2017 I'm with Aries. I also wondered if she was a hooker. Sounds at least semi-professional to me. I've once tried OLD for a week. These women that don't chat, ask to meet immediately, and have some financial interest are agents for paid matchmaking services at best. 4
salparadise Posted March 19, 2017 Posted March 19, 2017 I have never let a lady pay for anything while on a date. I guess I am old school in that I just think the guy should always pay regardless......I was brought up that way and just how I see things Ha, chivalry persists into the next millennium! You know, they have machines that can fly overhead now too... like point of this discussion. 1
Miss Spider Posted March 19, 2017 Posted March 19, 2017 As a Filipina, she makes me look bad. But to be honest, a lot of Asian females are raised to have this 'princess' mentality.. Despite them being able to spend money on themselves. My parents did this too, but like with everything else they want me to do, i refused lol I think you did the right thing. Don't give this girl a free meal. I was gonna say lol, to most westerners her "your treat lol" is rude/bizarre. But have East Asian relatives who straight up asked my white dad how much money he makes annually and how much his house costs. He was shocked, but it's completely normal to them lol. But yeah you made the right decision, Op.
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