Enrique77 Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 Okay so lately I have started to notice a really different behavior in my professor, which is good from my point of view. She has been very sweet with me and I have started to notice that she is only this way with me. I barely even talk in class and she gives me 100% of my participation points. We are both obviously over 21 so age is not an issue here. So, in regards to her behavior I decided to test her to see if she is really interested. At first I used to sit in the front of the class very close to her, we had a lot of eye contact and I think she liked it and was really aware (by the looks) that I have a crush on her. So the other day I switched seats and started to sit in the back of the class just to see her reaction. Now, she is frequently going to the back of the classroom right by where I am sitting and she talks to the whole class from there sometimes. She does this kind of frequently now that I think about it. When I used to sit in the front close to her she never did this. Another thing is that I never participate in class and my participation grade is always marked as really high and I know some students that do not participate and they do not get the same grade as me. She smiles and thanks me for no apparent reason. I also caught her looking at me once. I need help in knowing if she truly likes me and it would be amazing if she does because we are both young and no married at all. What can I do?
d0nnivain Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 You do nothing. Your professor can't date you. She's your teacher. Right now she has control over your grade. In most schools dating you while you are a student at the institution where she draws a pay check gets her fired. Even when you're not in her class anymore if you are still a student it's a no go. You are probably over reading the situation. She sees you as a student who is paying attention; thus she likes you. That is not a romantic like. By the middle of next semester she won't remember your name. When I was a professor if I had a handsome male student in my class, I would often notice. Not act on it but be aware of his pleasing aesthetics. If I had an engaged student of either gender, I'd pay a lot of attention to that person because it was fun for me to interact with somebody who cared about the subject. It's really not what you think / hope. 4
mikeylo Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 Interested or not, doesnt matter. You focus on studies and thats it. At 21, you are still a student and she is a proffessor ! Think about that. 1
Author Enrique77 Posted March 18, 2017 Author Posted March 18, 2017 None of you understand...I am trying to know if she is interested. I am not saying I will date her.
Quiet Storms Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 None of you understand...I am trying to know if she is interested. I am not saying I will date her. None of us are in her head, so we can't tell you for sure if she is interested. Either way, what difference does it make if you can't date her? Honestly curious. 1
Author Enrique77 Posted March 18, 2017 Author Posted March 18, 2017 She acts weird with me as if she is attracted...that intrigues me since no professor has ever done that to me. Wouldn't you be curious as well?
Springsummer Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 (edited) The man who is most likely to become the French president is married to his high-school teacher, who is 24 years his senior. Edited March 18, 2017 by Springsummer 1
Quiet Storms Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 She acts weird with me as if she is attracted...that intrigues me since no professor has ever done that to me. Wouldn't you be curious as well? You could always wait until she's no longer your teacher and then try asking her out. 3
curiouslysearching Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 You could always wait until she's no longer your teacher and then try asking her out. now that is a stellar idea 1
whichwayisup Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 None of you understand...I am trying to know if she is interested. I am not saying I will date her. Wait until you graduate and then ask her out. But she may have a boyfriend. Or maybe she just thinks you're cute and is enjoying knowing you have a crush on her. Your ego wants to know, and that's dangerous because let's say she does really 'like' you. What happens next? Especially if she's single? Imagine failing the class or being kicked out because you two got together outside of class. 2
whichwayisup Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 She acts weird with me as if she is attracted...that intrigues me since no professor has ever done that to me. Wouldn't you be curious as well? Yes but I certainly wouldn't go looking for trouble. How important is your schooling? 1
Author Enrique77 Posted March 19, 2017 Author Posted March 19, 2017 Okay, it sounds good. I think it's better to wait since obviously college is very important. Thanks!
Author Enrique77 Posted March 31, 2017 Author Posted March 31, 2017 I have another question. What does it mean if she gives me excellent grades on something I did poorly on?
Purepony Posted March 31, 2017 Posted March 31, 2017 I have another question. What does it mean if she gives me excellent grades on something I did poorly on? That means she loves you and wants to be with you Ask her out thru Face space and before you know it you won't even have to attend class kustvstraight aaaaas all the way
Arieswoman Posted March 31, 2017 Posted March 31, 2017 Enrique, What does it mean if she gives me excellent grades on something I did poorly on? Then she's unprofessional and not fit for the position she's in. In any event I doubt that will happen as many exam results are independently audited. Stop worrying about stuff that may never happen. 1
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