palmsand Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 Two dates so far, coffee and dinner. We live about 40 minutes apart and I drove down to her area both times. Thinking this time it should be something in my area, to set the precedent for trading off on trips. It's hard because she is very unique in her interests. Reading, reading, and more reading. She practically lives at Barnes and Noble, but I think making her drive all the way here just for us to wander around a book store seems weird. There are two amusement parks here but I can't see dropping that kind of money right now. I had thought it would be cool if she came up this weekend so we could go to the huge swap meet on sunday, since they have lots of books and food and music. But it's only sundays and she has work. I'd like something where we aren't trapped in a restaurant, where we can wander and talk and have a little more privacy, I guess? I asked about a movie for the 2nd date but she preferred dinner. Don't get the impression she would be into a hike or the beach or things like that. I know, tough question without knowing her but maybe someone has in idea for something unique?
RecentChange Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 What sort of area are you in? Suburbs, urban? Weather? San Francisco, I have date ideas a mile long - but not sure what is available to you. What kind of books is she into? 1
Author palmsand Posted March 17, 2017 Author Posted March 17, 2017 I'm in an upper middle-class suburb of Los Angeles, she lives in the valley much closer to downtown. She is huge Harry Potter fan, but loves all kinds of fiction. The weather should be nice, around 80* maybe some clouds.
SevenCity Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 Have you slept with her yet? Do you plan to on this date?
RecentChange Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 Alright now we are getting somewhere. I peeked at your last thread - she is new to the area? Had she done any of the touristy stuff? Like checking out the Chinese Theatre, Walk of Fame... If you go to Hollywood - there is a burger place (called 25 degrees) in the Roosevelt Hotel that is really good. I think it would be a good date spot - BEAUTIFUL old building (you can hang out in the lobby of the hotel) and great burgers. SO, if she hasn't done the tourist stuff, what about strolling around Hollywood and then grab a burger? I am "nerdy" and thought the Brea Tar Pits and Museum was really cool. The Museum of Art is right next door (another idea). 2
RecentChange Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 (edited) Another thought - the arts district! You can walk around and check out all of the murals and street art. Little galleries. If you both like beer - Angel City Brewer is a great stop. Really neat big warehouse building with art deco decor, art etc. Food trucks come on weekend evenings and its a nice place to eat, drink and chat (plus they give good tours for free + tastings). And I realize this stuff isnt up near you - but if she is new to LA she may appreciate getting to know the city a bit more. Edited March 17, 2017 by RecentChange
Author palmsand Posted March 17, 2017 Author Posted March 17, 2017 Thanks, those all sound like great ideas. I also just thought of the Queen Mary as well. She asked me what interesting things there are to see in LA so I bet she hasn't been to many of these yet. 1
RecentChange Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 Queen Mary is a good one! And in Long Beach there is an area with a bunch of hip vintage stores which is fun to check out. Downtown LB has a lot of options for food as well (with open air seating) 1
angel.eyes Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 I love the Queen Mary! You can also meander out to Catalina Island for a nice little trip. Rent a golf cart when you get out there if she truly hates any walking. In LA, La Brea Tar Pits, Griffith Observatory, meander along the Santa Monica Pier, then walk along the beach to Venice Beach There are tons of little artsy stores along the boardwalk in Venice Beach. Also consider J. Paul Getty museum, LACMA, etc. The Getty Museum is gorgeous at sunset. Or you could drive north via the Topanga Canyons and Malibu into Oxnard and Ventura. It's gorgeous and you avoid 405 and 101 gridlock. Or drive up the Pacific Coast Highway to San Simeon, and spend some time exploring the property and the nearby town ...Or drive up to Santa Barbara and spend the day meandering around. So many amazing things to do and visit in LA besides visiting Barnes and Nobles! I mean even something as simple and silly as going go-karting to have fun and rediscover your inner child makes for a great date. 1
act00 Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 I really like these suggestions that others have. I don't live in the area, so I'm clueless, but I think a "touristy" thing sounds really fun, and some dinner, drinks, walk around, window shop, enjoy the nice weather, is just a nice evening.
Gr8fuln2020 Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 I'm certain you two communicated before meeting up. Did you ask her what her interests were? Surely not only books?! If so, that is the type of person you are looking for? Anyway, ask her or simply plan something that YOU WOULD like. Something fun. Perhaps she needs to be with someone who will bring her out of her box. 2
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