Tracy21 Posted July 26, 2005 Posted July 26, 2005 Ok, so I met a handsome, charming gentleman about 3 weeks ago and we hit it off.....I really think he is handsome, I find him very very attractive ...I think he thinks the same about me..coz he asked if I had a boyfriend and asked for my number. HE called me several times we talked for a while. I called him several times too. BUt the thing is...He is shy.......I am shy... So for us to get the conversation going on the phone is kinda of hard. He lives about 2 hrs away from where I Live. We made plans to visit one another...but We haven't done that yet coz we haven't really pushed things. I am feeling this guy alot....I don't know if he feels the same though. I Think it would be better if we met in person and talked...maybe our conversation will flow a litttle better. Last time I talked to him he told me to let him know whenever I am ready to visit him. SO, the thing is I am one those girls who feels like a guy should be calling me....I mean I made it clear to him that I like him (I think) but he is not calling....IT's been about 4 daus now. He usually calls me right away when I call him... SO, my question is ....is he into me? or he is just not interested?...is it because he is shy?... I don't know what to think anymore.....
millefiori Posted July 26, 2005 Posted July 26, 2005 Some guys are so shy that they are blind to the opportunity that lies before them. Years later they will rue the missed chance. You can either decide to give him a lesson for his future that he will remember later on or you decide to call him and give him a gentle push. If he still isn't showing a lot of initiative after things have developed between you, you might want to look for someone else who is less inhibited and less scared to seize the day.
Author Tracy21 Posted July 27, 2005 Author Posted July 27, 2005 I am considering going for the gentle push...(well, hoping that he is just being shy)..but this will be the LAST TIME of me trying to make things develop between us.... I just don't see myself pursuing him...I would rather he pursed me...you know...I don't want to be the chaser...
clynn Posted July 27, 2005 Posted July 27, 2005 Well, if that is how you feel. Could also be that since he has invited you to visit and you haven't taken him up on it yet, he may feel that perhaps you aren't that interested......or maybe that the ball is in your court for the time being. He may be open to receiving phone calls, but sounds like he is ready to take it to the next level, whenever you are, as he said.
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