oneinamillion93 Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 I went on a date with a guy on a dating site few months ago and we didn't talk anymore after that. Fast forward I was at my friends birthday party and a bit tipsy I texted this guy again after I was home. It was early in the morning and he read it few hours later and didn't answer the text. Should I text back say I was drunk? We might bump into each other again due to work and I don't wanna make it awkward. I'm so embarrassed. I should have block or delete his contact but I didn't. Also idk if my text sounds creepy or what that he didn't bother to answer
Author oneinamillion93 Posted March 17, 2017 Author Posted March 17, 2017 What did your text say? I never added him on fb. So I asked if xxx was his page and I just wanted to say Hi. Mind you I saw it on people you may know even we don't have any mutual friends
CptInsano Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 I never added him on fb. So I asked if xxx was his page and I just wanted to say Hi. And what about that is particularly embarrassing?
Author oneinamillion93 Posted March 17, 2017 Author Posted March 17, 2017 And what about that is particularly embarrassing? Well I think it's not the text itself but the way he handled it. He didn't answer so I felt dumb and embarrassing. Plus I texted really early in the morning. I meant I just asked how's he doing not like I wanted to hang again or such.
1fish2fish Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 I think it would be more embarrassing if you followed it up with ANOTHER text explaining that you sent him a tipsy text. Let it go and don't bring it up when/if you see him at work. 3
smackie9 Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 If you only went on one date, both haven't made a move to get in touch for 2 months, and he never bothered to answer your text.....none of you see any importance in each other so my suggestion is you just forget about it, and remember to block/delete his number from your phone so you don't have a drunken urge to do it again. 2
kendahke Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 I went on a date with a guy on a dating site few months ago and we didn't talk anymore after that. Fast forward I was at my friends birthday party and a bit tipsy I texted this guy again after I was home. It was early in the morning and he read it few hours later and didn't answer the text. Should I text back say I was drunk? We might bump into each other again due to work and I don't wanna make it awkward. I'm so embarrassed. I should have block or delete his contact but I didn't. Also idk if my text sounds creepy or what that he didn't bother to answer No. Texting him apologizing for being drunk and texting is cringy. His behavior is telling you that he's no longer interested in you. Block and delete his number now. Deal with bumping into him when/if it happens. 1
TheTraveler Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 Well I think it's not the text itself but the way he handled it. He didn't answer so I felt dumb and embarrassing. Plus I texted really early in the morning. I meant I just asked how's he doing not like I wanted to hang again or such. Don't worry about it too much and let it go.
CaliforniaGirl Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 Wow, I agree with the above posters; that's nothing at all. No big deal! Just sounds like a casual FB friend request (via text)...like something any acquaintance might bring up to another...I would NOT say ANYTHING else, if he doesn't respond then he doesn't but he won't think anything of it, I'm sure.
Curiousroxy86 Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 I went on a date with a guy on a dating site few months ago and we didn't talk anymore after that. Fast forward I was at my friends birthday party and a bit tipsy I texted this guy again after I was home. It was early in the morning and he read it few hours later and didn't answer the text. Should I text back say I was drunk? We might bump into each other again due to work and I don't wanna make it awkward. I'm so embarrassed. I should have block or delete his contact but I didn't. Also idk if my text sounds creepy or what that he didn't bother to answer Move on with your life. Maybe block him to keep from doing that foolish thing again. You'll be alright
GoldSparkz Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 It sounds like you're still attracted to him and are disappointed that you never got a response...otherwise you wouldn't be taking the time and effort to post the question here. I agree with the others who suggested deleting and blocking his number as he isn't interested by the sound of it. 1
pogredad Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 Hi. If you are still interested, why not try your luck? Nothing prevents you and you have nothing to lose, especially by messages.
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