Is texting a girl "morning beautiful" to a girl a bit much after one great date?

[hercules22]

You guys have valid points. Although I'm getting a sense of disinterest, maybe it's because I've been working long hours today, but just want a second opinion on our conversation.

 

Me - Morning cheeky, hope my favourite giraffe lover has a great day!

Her - Heyyyyyy. Aww thanks. I'm soooooo sleepy!

Me - Haha same, going back to bed sounds a lot better than work! What trouble you up to today?

Her - Haha me? Trouble?? Never!! I'm working today like a good girl

Me - Oh a good girl? Aiming your golf stick at my protected area, I'd say you're the queen of trouble

Her - Haha you loved it!

Me - That you'll never know!

Her - Oh I know you did

Me - Ah well I'm starting work so going to have to keep you guessing.. text you soon

Her - Have fun

 

Later on I just wanted to clarify details of our next date next Thursday.

 

Me [7:35pm] - Hey Got that escape room booked for Thursday at 12, there's an American diner we can go to after if that's good with you!

Her [7:38pm]- Ooh get you booking stuff! I'll check my diary but I do have a doc appointment in the morning about 11 so might have to be later than 12??

Me [8:06pm] - How about 1pm? I'm in work at half 4 on that day so as long as I leave for 3 I'm good. We can always do something different

 

I haven't had a reply and it's nearly midnight, but saw she was online on the dating website.

 

The old me might have sent something else, but I haven't and I want to refrain from that incase there's a valid reason and I don't put her off.

 

If I don't hear back I might wait until Sunday and start a fresh conversation then bring it up again? Any idea on this situation and what to do? Whatever I have done in the past by myself has never worked, so open to opinions.

 

looks like conversation went well i will just wait for her to reply so u dont look pushy if u dont hear from her in next 2 days then ill start to worry

[Curiousroxy86]

You guys have valid points. Although I'm getting a sense of disinterest, maybe it's because I've been working long hours today, but just want a second opinion on our conversation.

 

Me - Morning cheeky, hope my favourite giraffe lover has a great day!

Her - Heyyyyyy. Aww thanks. I'm soooooo sleepy!

Me - Haha same, going back to bed sounds a lot better than work! What trouble you up to today?

Her - Haha me? Trouble?? Never!! I'm working today like a good girl

Me - Oh a good girl? Aiming your golf stick at my protected area, I'd say you're the queen of trouble

Her - Haha you loved it!

Me - That you'll never know!

Her - Oh I know you did

Me - Ah well I'm starting work so going to have to keep you guessing.. text you soon

Her - Have fun

 

Later on I just wanted to clarify details of our next date next Thursday.

 

Me [7:35pm] - Hey Got that escape room booked for Thursday at 12, there's an American diner we can go to after if that's good with you!

Her [7:38pm]- Ooh get you booking stuff! I'll check my diary but I do have a doc appointment in the morning about 11 so might have to be later than 12??

Me [8:06pm] - How about 1pm? I'm in work at half 4 on that day so as long as I leave for 3 I'm good. We can always do something different

 

I haven't had a reply and it's nearly midnight, but saw she was online on the dating website.

 

The old me might have sent something else, but I haven't and I want to refrain from that incase there's a valid reason and I don't put her off.

 

If I don't hear back I might wait until Sunday and start a fresh conversation then bring it up again? Any idea on this situation and what to do? Whatever I have done in the past by myself has never worked, so open to opinions.

 

Your doing great. Let her respond. If she don't on to the next one. You got this!

[TheTraveler]

We have a second date planned for next Thursday, but had our first date this Monday just gone.

 

Was there any reason a lot of time was planned between date 1 and date 2? Ten days between date one and two and the best you came up with is a lunch date?

 

Also, the escape room is a night event imo with drinks.

[fmfan08]

Was there any reason a lot of time was planned between date 1 and date 2? Ten days between date one and two and the best you came up with is a lunch date?

 

Also, the escape room is a night event imo with drinks.

 

Unfortunately I'm hit with a lot of lates at work. I could have done one particular day but she was working. Earliest I could do was before I start work on Thursday and see her for three hours. We'll probably go bowling as well as lunch.

[fmfan08]

Your doing great. Let her respond. If she don't on to the next one. You got this!

 

She replied four hours later at midnight oddly enough and she said "Yeah 1 would be more manageable I think :o", I said "Great! We'll have to do something else though. Looking forward to seeing you again" and she said "Aww yeah me too :o"

 

That was Saturday, but didn't feel the need to reply to her message. I'll text her good morning on Monday.

[preraph]

Just be yourself and don't worry about how she might take it.

 

Something to ponder:

You are more likely to find someone who likes you the way you are when you actually are the way you are. Isn't that what most of us say we want?

 

This is good advice, but only if you take it entirely literally, but the truth is "just be yourself and don't worry about how she might take it" -- he's going to worry. He's on Loveshack, so he's already worrying. IF he could do it and not sweat it and just let it slip his mind she didn't respond when that happens, then yes, that would be just fine. But he is already worrying a lot about everything.

 

And I do agree with the "be yourself," but the first couple of dates require restraint or both men and women letting it all hang out will send their dates running for the hills.

[fmfan08]

We didn't contact on the Sunday and I was going to drop her a message Monday morning.

 

However at 2:30am I was browsing POF and decided I was bored with it so I deleted it. She text me "Ooh someone's on pof late!!!", I replied "Hello cheeky I was deleting the app but accidentally opened it".

 

She said "Why are you deleting it?? And so late?" So I said "Didn't feel like I needed it! I see you're up late!".

 

Then I got no reply so thought she might have gone to sleep so I text her "I'm off to sleep, sweet dreams :)".

 

It's the next day and I haven't heard anything and worried I may have annoyed her or put her off, although I did say goodnight so she may not have a reason to respond to that.

 

She must have been using POF herself at that time to see me though..

 

Should I leave it a day then re-initiate with a totally fresh topic?

[Scarlett.O'hara]

She must have been using POF herself at that time to see me though..

 

Should I leave it a day then re-initiate with a totally fresh topic?

 

So it is ok for to pry into your business, but then she "disappears" when you ask her the same question? Sounds like game playing to me and I wouldn't ignore it.

 

It is up to you whether you want to contact her again and pretend like nothing happened. However, I would strongly advise you not to get too invested and keeping dating others until you know her better.