Alec279 Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 Hi This is my first thread just came across the sitr searching this lol So i have been seeing this girl for couple of weeks now and went on dinner couple of time. And fooled around a bit. Everything was going fine and there was no status to the relationship. So shes from different city and she went back to see her family and friend for week. When she came back she didn't mention anything when i saw her. After two days i text her but she didnt replay the whole day and at night she text me saying that she saw her ex and she thought she was moved on but apparently not and shes going through the phase... Honestly i wasn't expecting that so i said i dont know what to say and wasn't expecting this. And didnt message her for last two days. What should i do ? Should i message her or wait ? Honestly i would just want to know where we stand. If i want to ask her that how should i put it ? Thanks for replay
anzhoulau Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 She said she was not over her ex. Let her deal with her past and you move on. 3
Arieswoman Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 Alex, After two days i text her but she didnt replay the whole day and at night she text me saying that she saw her ex and she thought she was moved on but apparently not and shes going through the phase... She's not available to you, move on. Sorry. 1
Sweetfish Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 Hi This is my first thread just came across the sitr searching this lol So i have been seeing this girl for couple of weeks now and went on dinner couple of time. And fooled around a bit. Everything was going fine and there was no status to the relationship. So shes from different city and she went back to see her family and friend for week. When she came back she didn't mention anything when i saw her. After two days i text her but she didnt replay the whole day and at night she text me saying that she saw her ex and she thought she was moved on but apparently not and shes going through the phase... Honestly i wasn't expecting that so i said i dont know what to say and wasn't expecting this. And didnt message her for last two days. What should i do ? Should i message her or wait ? Honestly i would just want to know where we stand. If i want to ask her that how should i put it ? Thanks for replay Cut her loose. Don't chase her. Be happy this wasnt 6 or 8 months into a relationship 2
Miss Spider Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 Take it from me...she's just not into you...she's into her ex. Texting her again isn't gonna make her more interested. Move on. 1
hercules22 Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 let her go if she comes back great just think of it as her loss if u do end up finding someone else and liking them 1
Author Alec279 Posted March 16, 2017 Author Posted March 16, 2017 I agree i have to move on... I know she indirectly meant that. but i wasn't looking for anything serious just looking for something like friends with benefits.
Gr8fuln2020 Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 I agree i have to move on... I know she indirectly meant that. but i wasn't looking for anything serious just looking for something like friends with benefits. Jimminy Crickets! She has feelings for her ex and telling you in her own way to move on and you're contemplating how to take advantage by using her as a sex project???? Dude, just move on and leave her alone.
kendahke Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 What should i do ? Should i message her or wait ? Leave her alone. She's still hung up on her ex. She had a new guy and decided to go back to the ex because somewhere, she felt she was cheating on him by being with you, so that's why she went to him to see. I myself wouldn't want someone to had to go and check where their feelings for their ex were. That tells me that she would be wasting my time.l Honestly i would just want to know where we stand. If i want to ask her that how should i put it ? Thanks for replay You stand behind her ex on her priority list. Like I said, I'd block her and leave her alone.
kendahke Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 I agree i have to move on... I know she indirectly meant that. but i wasn't looking for anything serious just looking for something like friends with benefits. Then why are you tripping about What should i do ? Should i message her or wait ? Honestly i would just want to know where we stand. If i want to ask her that how should i put it ? Want to know where you stand? For a booty call? That's not required information for a booty call.
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