beginnerinlove1 Posted July 26, 2005 Posted July 26, 2005 Hi everyone, won't bore you all - wrote a long post about this a cpl weeks ago... feel free to read that. Right now though, I'm posting for some strength to make myself hate this guy.... therefore not contact him! Short story - we dated for 3 months, his ex was a big part of his life during this time, "a good friend".... even to the extent of attending the boys' nights (I wasn't invited). Anyway I was very insecure about their "friendship" however he continuously reassured me he never loved her etc etc had no feelings for each other..... I was cranky at first but then accepted it. Anyway, she started coming round to his house at night and stalking us, calling him like 100 times etc.... now he's broken up with me cause he suddenly "doesn't know what he wants." Breaks up with me over text msg then him and the ex are having lunch together the next day whilst he completely ignores my calls! 1 week later he meets up with me and tells me he slept with the ex a few days ago but it "just happened," knows it was the wrong thing and asks for my advice on how he can get rid of her! Won't get back with me, doesn't get rid of her - spends every night with her! So I told him to contact me when he gets some balls & wants to start acting like a man, as I don't associate with little boys. His response was "do not contact me again." Now he won't speak to me. I know I should hate him & never want to see him again but for some reason I cant help thinking what could be romantically if it wasn't for her! So lost and feel like such an idiot.
sunflower1008 Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by beginnerinlove1 So lost and feel like such an idiot. I don't think you're the one who should feel lost and an idiot....HE is both. Look at what you just wrote - he had lunch with her, ignored your calls and then SLEPT WITH HER! HELLOOOO!! And he told you it "just happened"? This BOY is a bull*****ter, plain and simple. And who needs a bull*****ter to take away your precious time? Take the high road, and say "goodbye and good luck in finding someone as low as you".
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