Author shizzle_84 Posted March 14, 2017 Author Posted March 14, 2017 Or they're the only two telling you what you want to hear... Or maybe you're just jealous
KBob Posted March 14, 2017 Posted March 14, 2017 Or maybe you're just jealous You hit the nail on the head. I'm jealous of you.
Author shizzle_84 Posted March 14, 2017 Author Posted March 14, 2017 You hit the nail on the head. I'm jealous of you. Ok... but what if you're wrong? Cause this is what you said before : Why not!? You dropped the ball there. By not replying and ignoring that you instantly put it in her mind that you are thinking negatively about her response. That would make me think you're jealous. You have no right to be, and she didn't need to give you any explanations, as you haven't even gone on a date! This girl was opening doors for you and you shut her down. Learn from this and better luck next time.
KBob Posted March 14, 2017 Posted March 14, 2017 I could be. Anyone on here could be, including you, hence why these are all opinions. Only time will tell.
Titanll Posted March 14, 2017 Posted March 14, 2017 Jesus man! Hooker up one side and down the other...you can't be that blind, can you? You're going to end up cuffed to a bed somewhere if you're not careful... 2
CptInsano Posted March 14, 2017 Posted March 14, 2017 I could be. Anyone on here could be, including you, hence why these are all opinions. Only time will tell. I might be wrong about her, too. But I'm also 100% sure that I wouldn't have stayed around to find out. She may or may not be a hooker, yet it is clear that she knows how to handle men.
Author shizzle_84 Posted March 15, 2017 Author Posted March 15, 2017 Ok, now she's suggesting we go to a movie... I must have made quite an impression being awkward and all. She probably wants to make sure we're both in the right state of mind? I have no idea but I thought first date movies is a bad idea... Anyways, I'm getting the idea this girl wants "a little less conversation, a little more action".
Author shizzle_84 Posted March 15, 2017 Author Posted March 15, 2017 Verdict's in... She's a hooker. We didn't do anything but she told me over dinner. Man... 1
preraph Posted March 15, 2017 Posted March 15, 2017 Well, she's not a very good one or she'd have just propositioned you. Probably has been busted recently. 1
divegrl Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 Yup..... Shake it off OP. Chin up..... onto the next one.
Author shizzle_84 Posted March 16, 2017 Author Posted March 16, 2017 Did you at least find out how much she charges? No, but I can give you her number if you want? 1
Author shizzle_84 Posted March 16, 2017 Author Posted March 16, 2017 Yup..... Shake it off OP. Chin up..... onto the next one. Hooker was the last thought I had in mind, I just thought she and her friends wanted to take me for a long ride - and make a fool of myself. Like "HAHA you thought I was that into you didn't you?" Kind of thing... Man... Man oh man... BTW, I noticed your quote there... The first one is Will Smith? The second one Dalai Lama?
coolheadal Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 A call girl, you didn't see that coming did you. The guy friend who takes care of all her needs. That's the hint for you. Today everything goes, really got off lucky you don't know what type of health wise she has too. I am sure you can do better than her can you. Try not to go to these places where these woman hang out looking for a man with a job and money. No want ask for this up front unless they need money which is the main reason she said "he takes care of all her needs bar/blank and blank.. That would be you next..
Author shizzle_84 Posted March 16, 2017 Author Posted March 16, 2017 A call girl, you didn't see that coming did you. The guy friend who takes care of all her needs. That's the hint for you. Today everything goes, really got off lucky you don't know what type of health wise she has too. I am sure you can do better than her can you. Try not to go to these places where these woman hang out looking for a man with a job and money. No want ask for this up front unless they need money which is the main reason she said "he takes care of all her needs bar/blank and blank.. That would be you next.. She really knows how to put it on though... with those 'bedtime' eyes. It's going to take some will power to shake this one off. Is there such thing as an EXCITING and head over heels AROUSING - girls who's also not a promiscuous bitch?
VeveCakes Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 She really knows how to put it on though... with those 'bedtime' eyes. It's going to take some will power to shake this one off. Is there such thing as an EXCITING and head over heels AROUSING - girls who's also not a promiscuous bitch? Yes. Get your mind aroused instead of your other head. She hardly reciprocated anything and was a **** conversationalist. Yet you are pinning after her. She also had a "bff" that escorts her to club. These are all not attractive qualities. So she's hot and that's all it takes for you? Perhaps some more depth to yourself is needed. And yes, there are plenty of very sexy women out there who aren't escorts. Guess lesson is learned that every place is "that type of place". Hookers hang out everywhere, not just where they hang a sign.
CptInsano Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 Verdict's in... She's a hooker. We didn't do anything but she told me over dinner. Man... Hey, at least it will make for a good story. Not too many guys took a hooker to the movies.
Author shizzle_84 Posted March 16, 2017 Author Posted March 16, 2017 Yes. Get your mind aroused instead of your other head. She hardly reciprocated anything and was a **** conversationalist. Yet you are pinning after her. She also had a "bff" that escorts her to club. These are all not attractive qualities. So she's hot and that's all it takes for you? Perhaps some more depth to yourself is needed. And yes, there are plenty of very sexy women out there who aren't escorts. Guess lesson is learned that every place is "that type of place". Hookers hang out everywhere, not just where they hang a sign. When I say promiscuous I didn't mean just hookers, but you know - also normal girls who sleep around with a lot of guys. I've been approached by one girl that I'm sure wasn't the promiscuous type... But the rest of them turned out to be promiscuous girls. Both those girls wanted me for a rebound. I usually get quite a bit of attention from girls in general. But I have trouble approaching. I'm kind of just getting over my 'ugly duckling syndrome'? That's probably the root of the problem here.
PogoStick Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 What's wrong with a promiscuous girl? I'll take their numbers, thanks.
Author shizzle_84 Posted March 17, 2017 Author Posted March 17, 2017 What's wrong with a promiscuous girl? I'll take their numbers, thanks. They leave you high and dry... Or feeling empty and used? I don't know - maybe it's all good if you know what the deal is coming in. But I'm guessing it can feel kind of lonely and isolating.
RecentChange Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 They leave you high and dry... Or feeling empty and used? I don't know - maybe it's all good if you know what the deal is coming in. But I'm guessing it can feel kind of lonely and isolating. Come on dude? And you didn't think this girl would? Even after you missed the neon sign that she is a hooker? Or is it because she was HOT that you didn't care that she seemed to only ask about your income? Sounded like she was really interested in the "real you" and wanted a deep connection right? Well lesson learned, and now you know hookers will show up at the least expected places. My husband and I have a fun game of picking them out, even funnier when our single guy friends ask for their number (and then we of course clue them in!!) Now you know, the odds of a hot chick cold approaching you, making bedroom eyes, are minimal. The odds that she is looking for some sort of finical exchange for sex is quite high.
Author shizzle_84 Posted March 17, 2017 Author Posted March 17, 2017 (edited) Come on dude? And you didn't think this girl would? Even after you missed the neon sign that she is a hooker? Or is it because she was HOT that you didn't care that she seemed to only ask about your income? Sounded like she was really interested in the "real you" and wanted a deep connection right? Well lesson learned, and now you know hookers will show up at the least expected places. My husband and I have a fun game of picking them out, even funnier when our single guy friends ask for their number (and then we of course clue them in!!) Now you know, the odds of a hot chick cold approaching you, making bedroom eyes, are minimal. The odds that she is looking for some sort of finical exchange for sex is quite high. Hey man... 1) OF COURSE THIS GIRL WOULD LEAVE ME HIGH AND DRY, THAT'S EXACTLY MY POINT... 2) I KNOW I MISSED THE "HOOKER" SIGN. But the thing is I've been to that bar countless times. And this is the FIRST TIME I met a whore there. 3) IF A GIRL SEES A GUY, alone at a bar - that can be strange where I'm from. So I thought that might be the reason for the strange question - whether I worked. 4) OBVIOUSLY, I NOTED IN THE first board that she didn't SMILE etc when we spoke face to face. She did however look back my way a couple of times... WHICH WAS probably THE ONLY REASON I TEXTED HER BACK. 5) She gave her BEDROOM EYES AFTER SHE TOLD ME SHE WAS A WHORE. Not before... Lastly, the TITLE of this thread is WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK? So yes, I did miss that "Whore" sign from her. My bad... You're totally right there. Edited March 17, 2017 by shizzle_84
todreaminblue Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 Hey man... 1) OF COURSE THIS GIRL WOULD LEAVE ME HIGH AND DRY, THAT'S EXACTLY MY POINT... 2) I KNOW I MISSED THE "HOOKER" SIGN. But the thing is I've been to that bar countless times. And this is the FIRST TIME I met a whore there. 3) IF A GIRL SEES A GUY, alone at a bar - that can be strange where I'm from. So I thought that might be the reason for the strange question - whether I worked. 4) OBVIOUSLY, I NOTED IN THE first board that she didn't SMILE etc when we spoke face to face. She did however look back my way a couple of times... WHICH WAS probably THE ONLY REASON I TEXTED HER BACK. 5) She gave her BEDROOM EYES AFTER SHE TOLD ME SHE WAS A WHORE Not before... Lastly, the TITLE of this thread is WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK? just to let you know you cant use the word ....that rhymes with door....floor...you get the picture...i would advise also the word that rhymes with ditch might be better ditched as well...you'll end up supervised and under moderation......i happen to know this ....because i have since last week just coem off supervision and a red flag..... from droppin the word ......w...on the floor in loveshack.... as far as hookers go im an ex hooker..guys i have been in relationships with .....have never felt used or abused.....or did i ever benefit financially from guys i have been with on an intimate level ..the opposite actually...i sit with debts......which is fine...my responsibility..... it takes all types on this board and in life....i guess we need to respect that.......... and treat each other with respect even when we disagree....cheers. PS in oz we call everyone guys including females....like hey guys how ya goin'.or....what do you guys think?.........guys also call people mate and matey in oz....just saying....if you want men only to reply maybe saying men might be better..........deb 1
Curiousroxy86 Posted March 17, 2017 Posted March 17, 2017 I went to a bar alone one night, I was drinking my beer when this girl comes over to my table, and looking at me. I wasn't sure what to do so I kind of looked her way and looked back at one of the guys she was sitting with. When I looked back at her again she's really like staring me down now. So I asked if she wanted a drink, she said she couldn't hear me. So moved over a bit and sat closer to her. So she didn't want a drink, and I proceeded to do my worst at moving the conversation forward. I was asking very boring bland questions (where do you work? Live? etc.) almost repeating myself and going blank a couple of times. She didn't smile or play with her hair during that time, but she she did give a hint of a smile when I said sorry "I'm nervous". She did ask me that night where my friends were - I kind of lied and said that I wanted to stick around but they left me. If I remember this got a whimper of a smile from her too. Anyways after maybe 3 minutes of this she finally says, "Is there anything you want to ask before I go back to my friends?" So I asked for her number. I think there were a few guys around looking over at us and she was very careful about me putting the phone flat the table so I guess it'll be harder for the eavesdroppers to see. Anyways she dials in her number, and immediately goes back to her friends. So I sit there drinking my beer for a bit, and noticed the guy she was sitting next to earlier had his hand lightly touching her back - on her waist. While I kept drinking though I noticed this girl looking my way from time to time. So anyways I left the bar 5 minutes later - I didn't say bye or go up to her again. I just left and messaged her that night itself. Next day she messages me. Asking me if I work for a living? I think she might be suspicious about a guy going at it alone at the bar. I sort of side stepped that question... Obviously I work for a living. And I told her that I thought the guy at the bar that night, sitting next to her - I thought might have been her BF? She came back with a pretty long reply, explaining that they're very good friends. And he usually takes care of her at the clubs/bar etc. Then a slightly weird thing she mentioned as well that he's not around in the state where we're at anymore. That night at the bar was his last night. I didn't reply to her after that. But the next day, in the morning I texted her asking if she wanted to meet up for coffee? It's been one day since, and no reply yet. I wasn't exactly charming at the bar, but I have an inkling that chances could be that this girl is taking me for a long ride. Can someone help? Does anyone think I should just leave my message at that and wait for her to reply? Anyways, this is very detailed and long one... so I appreciate any advice I can get for this. Cause this girl is really cute, beautiful, petite... Exactly my type. EXACTLY MY TYPE. Heh... text her with your goofy self lol. don't read into it. see where it goes. if she give you a real reason to be worried then you can worry.
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