Radil Posted July 26, 2005 Posted July 26, 2005 How is you meet a woman and the chemistry is all there and you have a wonderful time together and then she tells me she just wants to be friends right now because she is trying to deal with some issues ? She tells me I am everything she is looking for but just wants to be friends for the time being ? She is a very open and honest person so I am having a hard time understanding this. It seems to me she is dealing with some past relationship issues.
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 26, 2005 Posted July 26, 2005 There's really nothing you can do besides begin to set your sights on other women to date. "Friends" means that for whatever reason, she doesn't want to date you. The motivations hardly matter, when the outcome will continue to be the same.
loony Posted July 26, 2005 Posted July 26, 2005 I think you're a bit too intense. You asked yesterday what would be wrong about sending flowers? In my opinion sending flowers is nice, etc., nonetheless, it's a bit too much. If you do too much in the beginning, are too nice, you smother people who are not ready yet. You're very nice and you expect the same in return when they are not ready yet, that's the problem. Don't talk too much and back off a bit.
Author Radil Posted July 26, 2005 Author Posted July 26, 2005 I agree the outcome is the same. I guess what I am hearing from her is she wants to date me but not right now. She came onto me. I am just moving on. It is just wierd is all.
Author Radil Posted July 26, 2005 Author Posted July 26, 2005 I agree. That is why I asked. She wanted to go slow with everything and we were. She sped everything up and I refused to sleep with her. I just don't know what to believe but it really doesn't matter. The outcome is still the same. I guess for once I really wish I could see what she is really thinking hehe.
AndrewJ Posted July 26, 2005 Posted July 26, 2005 Radil what loony says in my experience is reality with regards to being over freindly. It sucks u want to show trhat speacial someone u care but it wont look that way from their point of view. But then gain u could send the flowers and she could bolwed over now woulndt thta be super
JS17 Posted July 26, 2005 Posted July 26, 2005 she sounds really confused, and if i had to guess, just got out of a relationship. regardless, she needs time to get herself together so keep on with your life and keep her in your back pocket for now. IMO, don't make any advances.
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