MelodyRye Posted March 13, 2017 Posted March 13, 2017 I have an older female friend (she's 36) but she became a mother 20 years ago. Typical story of HS pregnancy and the guy bailing out. She also has a younger 12 year-old son from an ex boyfriend (diff guy). There were a couple things I didn't agree with her such as partying like crazy on the weekends, flirting with any guy that said hi to her, etc. However, there is one thing that truly even disgust me. She was being overly flirty with her daughter's (the 20 year-old) live-in boyfriend. Then she kept mentioning to me about how the guy is so hot, closer to her age (he's 33), how it would have been cool if he was her boyfriend instead and kept complimenting him. Just a week ago, I heard from someone else that they were holding hands while getting in the elevator, just the two of them and not in a friendly way. Is this even normal for a mother to do to her own daughter? I know my mother would never do that. If a bf or date of mine tried flirting with her, he would be met with a hard slap followed by informing me immediately what just happened.
d0nnivain Posted March 13, 2017 Posted March 13, 2017 If you don't like the decisions your friends make, it's OK to spend less time with them. I don't know that I'd announce this to her, but I would fade away. 1
mikeylo Posted March 13, 2017 Posted March 13, 2017 Yeah, distance yourself from her. You dont have to tell her why.She is busy anyways, so may not even notice your absence.
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