Scared to see him again FWB

[Pretensit-y]

So i met this guy at a party 6 months ago. We instantly clicked and talked all night, and met up frequently throughout the subsequent weeks. We even went on a short weekedn beach trip together. He was always trying to see me and I really liked him.

 

We never talked about exclusitivity though, but we were having sex almost every time we met so I,d say it was more of a FWB relationship.

 

Eventually after about 1.5 months, I was leaving to move abroad, so we would not see each other again unless we found ourselves in the same country again.

 

I did confess my feelings to him and he acknowledged them and said he thought i was beautiful, and that he really liked me but he didnt know how it was going to work out with the distance. I agreed because I dont do LDR either.

 

We texted a lot almost everyday after i left which was all throughout December, and then we stopped texting in January since we both got busy,

 

I had strong feelings for him so saying goodbye was very difficult

and I cried a lot and even got a bit depressed when we stopped texting because I felt like i had missed out on such an oppurtunity with a guy that i was so compatible with.

 

Anyways, Im travelling to his country next month on a trip with my friends, and he texts me last week out of the blue and asks me how I am and whatever.Then he asks me about what im doing and i naturally bring up my upcoming trip. He gets super excited and asks me to come visit him in his hometown so he can show me around (hes talked a lot about his hometown when we were together and said he could take me around with him).

 

I replied and said I will try (because his hometown isnt on our planned route).

 

I do really want to see him again, but Im so unsure. Im scared i will redevelop all the feelings i had for him. i miss him so much and think about him alot. But this is the one oppurtunity to see him, because we'll both me busy with our lives soon and i dont know when ill see him again.

 

Should I make the effort and see him or just avoid it because of the pain and heartbreak i suffered from when i had to say goodbye the last time?

[d0nnivain]

We regret more in life the things we don't do. See him. If you are afraid of falling in bed with him, bring a friend & keep it public.

 

 

Maybe something will change & you can close the distance gap.