Mammoth Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 What does it mean when a guy tells you "I don't want to lose your trust"?
goldway90 Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 Could mean anything he probably likes you, maybe you're in the friendzone ... Next time ask him what does he mean by that 2
GoldSparkz Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 Without knowing more information, if a guy said that to me, I would assume he's talking from past experience. Perhaps he's done something in the past to cause a person to no longer trust him. Like goldway said, just get him to open up about what he meant. 1
d0nnivain Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 It means just that. However, I suspect its a precursor to him telling you something you don't want to hear. 3
todreaminblue Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 he doesnt want to lose your trust...signifies to me he is concerned about losing your trust...dont know why ..but you should ask him and be open with him allow him to be open say honesty whther bad or good ....builds trust......deb 1
preraph Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 Depends on context, but I would take that as a guy who doesn't want to be kicked out of bed when you find out he's been with another woman. But I hope I'm wrong! The best case is he's gotten himself in bad trouble before cheating. 1
Tressugar Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 Like D0nnivain said he's putting his feelers out to guage how you would respond when the other shoe drops. He wouldn't say that unless something is coming down the pike. 1
Author Mammoth Posted March 13, 2017 Author Posted March 13, 2017 We work together and although we are not dating we are fond of each other. He knows that my ex cheated on me. A few weeks ago we were discussing a work related issue and I made the comment "I trust you". Although this was a work related comment, I teared up. I guess saying the word "trust" brought back unresolved issues. A few days ago he was confiding in me as I was in him. I asked him not to share my comments with anyone. We both agreed and then he said "I don't want to lose your trust".
Author Mammoth Posted March 13, 2017 Author Posted March 13, 2017 Depends on context, but I would take that as a guy who doesn't want to be kicked out of bed when you find out he's been with another woman. But I hope I'm wrong! The best case is he's gotten himself in bad trouble before cheating. Some context... We work together and although we are not dating we are fond of each other. He knows that my ex cheated on me. A few weeks ago we were discussing a work related issue and I made the comment "I trust you". Although this was a work related comment, I teared up. I guess saying the word "trust" brought back unresolved issues. A few days ago he was confiding in me as I was in him. I asked him not to share my comments with anyone. We both agreed and then he said "I don't want to lose your trust".
coolheadal Posted March 13, 2017 Posted March 13, 2017 Well you have your answer, but you need more convincing from him. Your not dating so it's more of jest on his part to let you know can trust him 100%. As you know trust has to be earned. Your priors didn't give you that. Trust and respect are the two most important aspects for any relationship or friendship. Again you have someone who wants your trust. Take it has compliment!
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