hopeforbest22 Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 I like this girl, she knows I like her & how I feel about her. We been on dates before, to eat, movies, etc. We kissed before at bar. She said she needs to love her self first before love someone else relationship wise. Wants me to meet her best friend though because she says that her best friend wants to meet me. What does this mean? She into me? Do I even have a chance in dating her? wrote this fast, sorry.
preraph Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 The one you like is not interested in you but it being nice by offering to let you meet her friend who might be interested in you. It's going absolutely nowhere with the one you like though, but you should not pass up this opportunity to meet a new girl. 5
Miss Spider Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 It means you got friendzoned...I am sorry. Whenever you wonder these things ask yourself 'if *insert her favorite male celebrity* asked her out would she insist on being BFFs instead?' If you don't think so, don't friendzone yourself, as it's territory very, very few make it out of(to be generous)
ExpatInItaly Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 (edited) I like this girl, she knows I like her & how I feel about her. We been on dates before, to eat, movies, etc. We kissed before at bar. She said she needs to love her self first before love someone else relationship wise. Wants me to meet her best friend though because she says that her best friend wants to meet me. What does this mean? She into me? Do I even have a chance in dating her? wrote this fast, sorry. Who, the girl you like or the best friend? The girl you like, definitely not. Her best friend, impossible to say without meeting her. Edited March 12, 2017 by ExpatInItaly
hercules22 Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 who knows u might end up liking her friend sucks things wont get any further with the one u actually like maybe she likes someone else? 2
Erik30 Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 The one you like is not interested in you but it being nice by offering to let you meet her friend who might be interested in you. It's going absolutely nowhere with the one you like though, but you should not pass up this opportunity to meet a new girl. Seems like she's trying to set you up with her friend 2
todreaminblue Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 (edited) i have in the past softened a blow by introducing a guy to a friend of mine knowing they had similar interests and might match up ...i knew the guy was lonely and needed someone unfortunately it didnt work....he continued to try with me....and then became nasty when i had to tell him straight up.....i was gentle ...but honest ......and he got very nasty....i sort of knew he would..... i thought it was his unexpressed loneliness that would bring that on...it wasnt ..it was in him already......pretty deep set........and i shouldnt have introduced him at all to my friend i put her at risk should have listened when a voice said no deb no..should have trusted that something isnt right vibe.....its ok though ...he saved his harassment for me.when she declined to date him......and he went hard at harassing me 24 7 all hours of the day and night...until the guy i was dating told him to step off.....basically told him he would find him if he didnt stop............and I havent done it since....match make i mean.... some women will often soften a blow by introducing a guy she has no intention of being with to a friend who she believes might be good for him and he for her.... she likes you feels compassion and possible friendship for you....but has no intention of being with you.or she wouldnt be doing the friend introduction thing ..i wish you well...deb Edited March 12, 2017 by todreaminblue
CptInsano Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 The one you like is not interested in you but it being nice by offering to let you meet her friend who might be interested in you. It's going absolutely nowhere with the one you like though, but you should not pass up this opportunity to meet a new girl. Yes, more or less that. To the OP: Take that offer, because that girl sees something in you, just not for herself. Otherwise she wouldn't introduce you to her friend. This scenario has worked for me in the past. 1
Erik30 Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 some women will often soften a blow by introducing a guy she has no intention of being with to a friend who she believes might be good for him and he for her.... That would probably only work if the guy thinks your friend is more attractive than you... but usually she's not
lionlover1973 Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 Are you two actively 'dating'? If so, your decline to meet her best friend may be perceived negatively. Perhaps provide us with a bit more information. Personally - if I ask someone I'm dating to meet a best friend, it is because I genuinely like said person. I think it is pretty shady to not inform someone you are dating that you plan to 'pass them over' to someone else without giving them a 'heads up' (besides, my close circle of friends don't date the other's past dates). If that is the case. But that's just me and everyone is different.
Titanll Posted March 12, 2017 Posted March 12, 2017 Go for it...meet the best friend. You are solidly in the friendzone with chick one...but you may meet some great girls with her help. Just make sure that you keep your feelings for her in check . And for god's sake, please don't post here in a month about how things escalated with you two, you slept with her and now she won't talk to you anymore...please, please...I like this place but **** at the amount of sad ass bull**** that guys do and then post about it here! 1
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