carhill Posted March 13, 2017 Posted March 13, 2017 Good opportunity to work on the comfortable and happy in your own skin part to lessen or eliminate the perception of awkward moments. Roll with it. Tension is fine. Regardless of results each interaction is beneficial. Remember humor. It's your friend. 1
Author Protec Posted March 14, 2017 Author Posted March 14, 2017 Good opportunity to work on the comfortable and happy in your own skin part to lessen or eliminate the perception of awkward moments. Roll with it. Tension is fine. Regardless of results each interaction is beneficial. Remember humor. It's your friend. Well, i guess she was just having a bad day. Today she was happy again. No, i did not ask her those kind of things. But she was "hey J what'up? :)" And we talked for a moment again. So i did not do any damage.
Author Protec Posted March 18, 2017 Author Posted March 18, 2017 She still anwerrs my messages and keeps conversation going...which is interesting. I am not working at the same workplace anymore, i got laid of for health reasons (i got anxiety and panic attacks amongs customers), not a good feeling. She even knows i got laid off for health reasons, she still answers my whatsapp messages...
GemmaUK Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 She is just being friendly. I think you would be better off cutting contact with her if you are reading any more into it than that - and it sounds like you are to me. Sorry to hear about your job. Are you having treatment for the anxiety? 1
goldway90 Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 Yeah, She was quite awkward today at work. I said to her "Hey, about the message. It kinda came out wrong but it was just "as friends" question". She replied something "Oh don't worry about it. You worry way too much It's fine. I am really busy with my kids so..." Your ex was a single mother and that relationship ended badly, try to learn from your mistakes man. This girl isn't interested, you're in the friendzone i'm sorry.
preraph Posted March 18, 2017 Posted March 18, 2017 Sorry it turned out that way. She probably should have answered and just told you something like " I don't date coworkers" instead of leaving you hanging. But unfortunately, that was a definite "not interested." Now you've told her you were just being friends, she is going back to just being friendly at work, but she is not interested in anything more, so please don't keep hoping. There's other fish in the sea.
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