Bantosm Posted March 11, 2017 Posted March 11, 2017 This particular ex is very loyal in relationships. I worked with her for a time, and random people would always come in and end up flirting with her. As long as she was in a relationship she would never reciprocate. That was a quality that I really admired. I dated her last year for couple months but things were hectic. I've been interested in a second chance with her. We met up a couple weeks ago for lunch but more to get back in touch not really a date. I've been thinking things over, and taking it slow. I was driving by and I see her walking hand and hand with a guy or a girl. I thought I was too late. The next day I stopped in to visit with her and much to my amazement she was very flirty with me. I stop in and visit every now and then and usually we'll joke around. This time, she took a break and we walked to the back and talked which we never done before. She had sweet look in her eyes and I nearly embraced her for a kiss. I was very confused. At the end she said to call her, again usually we just text. A couple days later I found from a common friend that the ex was seeing another guy. I called her on Thursday we talked for a bit but she wanted to call back at 11 pm but asked about her bf and she didn't deny it. She tried to downplay that she was being flirty but when I asked if had a chance she gave a soft maybe. I'm going to leave her alone something is not right. Any ideas what's going on with her?
enddeck Posted March 11, 2017 Posted March 11, 2017 You had your chance but screwed up,at least in her mind.She is playing the field and at the moment you are just one of the bunch of other people in contention for her affections.If she was serious about you she would have gave a more definitive answer than a tentative maybe.Move on dude.
Author Bantosm Posted March 11, 2017 Author Posted March 11, 2017 You had your chance but screwed up,at least in her mind.Maybe I waited too long to get back in touch after having lunch but I didn't realize she was available. She is playing the field and at the moment you are just one of the bunch of other people in contention for her affections. That would be out of character for her. Move on dudeDo you not understand what this comment implies: I'm going to leave her alone something is not right. She's normally very loyal to whomever she's with, so the fact that she said I had a chance while she's seeing someone doesn't make sense. I find it concerning and just wondered if anyone had any experience where an ex had a drastic change like this.
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