Poutrew Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 Dude, she did answer you. You told her you wanted to go with her. She told you to come by for a visit before she leaves. She basically blew you off. The reason why she didn't answer you the second time you asked her, was because she couldn't believe how dense you were, not being able to take the hint. She closed up her phone whilst shaking her head.... If you want to have even a shred of dignity left, stop begging her. You are not only looking needy and clingy, but you are annoying her as well. The next text you give her is to wish her good luck on her trip, and bon voyage... then ghost her. Let her be the one complaining about how you ghosted her to her girlfriends. Keep your dignity intact for another relationship. 1
Author Rko28 Posted March 16, 2017 Author Posted March 16, 2017 Dude, she did answer you. You told her you wanted to go with her. She told you to come by for a visit before she leaves. She basically blew you off. The reason why she didn't answer you the second time you asked her, was because she couldn't believe how dense you were, not being able to take the hint. She closed up her phone whilst shaking her head.... If you want to have even a shred of dignity left, stop begging her. You are not only looking needy and clingy, but you are annoying her as well. The next text you give her is to wish her good luck on her trip, and bon voyage... then ghost her. Let her be the one complaining about how you ghosted her to her girlfriends. Keep your dignity intact for another relationship. You haven't even read my post have you...
smackie9 Posted March 16, 2017 Posted March 16, 2017 Anyone? Sorry to ask but I'm needing some advice The only thing you can do is talk to her about it. Obviously you have an issue with it or you wouldn't be here....man up and tell her how you feel. It's better to air things out before it gets over run by negative thoughts.
Author Rko28 Posted March 23, 2017 Author Posted March 23, 2017 Bit more of an update, last Friday we were both away with her family, had such a great time and we ended up telling each other that we are in love, she said she has been in love with me for weeks, I'm the best person she's ever met and that she's obsessed with me (that part was said in a joking way) I feel exactly the same, she's a fantastic person inside and out. The travelling thing of course is still in the back of my Mind, she mentioned she wouldn't be around for Christmas this year as she will be travelling. Nothing out of the blue as she told me this before. Now, I've been under the impression that she was happy with me visiting whilst she was away, however she introduced me to one of her best friends last Saturday whilst we were away, she went to the bar to get drinks and I got talking to her friend. Her friend said " I hear you and *** are planning on going travelling together, that's so cute" - I said that's news to me but I would like to. Should I mention this to my gf? She's sending off vibes and saying things like she's going by herself.
PogoStick Posted March 24, 2017 Posted March 24, 2017 Dude, you don't need any subterfuge or roundabout discussion. I told ya, just sit down and have a straight forward talk about what you both want. Make it simple, not complicated. 1
KBob Posted March 24, 2017 Posted March 24, 2017 Better be rich to afford so much traveling Not necessarily. I travelled in Southeast Asia, China, and the South Pacific for a year on $18,000. Could have been longer had I not went to Papua New Guinea; it was by far the most expensive place I visited. There are ways to travel on the cheap. 2
KBob Posted March 24, 2017 Posted March 24, 2017 Women insist on luxury travelling WRONG. I met tons of women backpacking on the cheap, just like me. 1
usa1ah Posted March 24, 2017 Posted March 24, 2017 Dude you need to just man up and wait for her to ask you to go. Stop being a puppy. What girl is going to want to be with a guy acting like you are. Ok she says she loves you, great. The thing is, how does she show it. Will all have or own needs in a relationship, it is a give and take to fill the needs of both. You are supposed to be seeing it the two of you are ever compatible right now and having fun. Get over the trip it isn't even here yet.
Space Ritual Posted March 24, 2017 Posted March 24, 2017 Not necessarily. I travelled in Southeast Asia, China, and the South Pacific for a year on $18,000. Could have been longer had I not went to Papua New Guinea; it was by far the most expensive place I visited. There are ways to travel on the cheap. I have to agree. Spent a half a year waddling around Europe and spent close to another year in North Africa smoking hashish and all in all i did it pretty cheaply. Got pretty loaded but that was kind of the goal. lol 1
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