Sounobvious Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 Okay so long stort... i haven't seen him since school ended ( a month ) ... we're both really shy... he has no experience ... but i've had a couple of bfs. But all of them had been really comfortable with dating and none had been shy.... at least not like this. Everyday we talk online for at least 4 hours... sometimes we stay up all night talking but never on the phone because he hates them so much he wont even talk to his own mom on it... we both know how we feel about eachother and both want to go out... So we're going to get together this week... and i'm really really nervous! He says he's going to be shy and he wont have anything to say... and i can't tell him i'm really shy too or it'll just be awkward.. What can i do to make this less awkward? I've never even hugged him... so how i could i change that and well... everything.... i need help
alphamale Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 shy people generally match up better with outgoing people.
Author Sounobvious Posted July 25, 2005 Author Posted July 25, 2005 I can't just give up though... he means everything to me
clynn Posted July 26, 2005 Posted July 26, 2005 Hey, you're both obviously keenly interested in each other. That's a fantastic start! Being shy is A-okay. You're probably both honest and sincere as well. Just try to be comfortable with your shyness, that's the best advice I can give. If you feel awkward or shy or weird, don't let it scare you too much, take a deep breath and realize that this is what it is all about. About working through the shyness and the anxiety and everything. Good luck!
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